Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by Lion, May 29, 2013.
I read your thread yesterday, but didn't respond as I felt the rest of the community was doing more than enough to support you.
However if you'd like me to be a part of that group in which you know personally outside of the site, I'd be more than happy to oblige. Just whack me a PM saying so and I'll throw all my contact details your way.
Anyway if it's any solace, a lot of people struggle after a relapse, regardless of whether they've done 5 days or 200 days. There are a lot of reasons for it, and it's a reason why I myself refuse to give a single inch. It's all or nothing, I can't find and don't necessarily believe in a balance. I am currently struggling with my stance on masturbation being a bad thing myself, but I am always able to forcibly shake myself from those thoughts and continue unperturbed.
I dread to think what would happen if I let go one time.
Just signing in.
Went to the stripclub tonight. My dick is so sensitive guys. The first stripper made me bust (She didn't even know it.). The second one almost made me bust too.
I love hot white women the the goth/tatted/metal style.
One more day... then it's time to Kick July's ass with Shaolin Monk mode hopefully.
Cheers, reforming myself, thanks for the reality check.
More like 47 days, which is the longest I've ever gone without MO/sex.. previous best was 50 days but I was having sex from day 28 onwards..
Partner is back in 2 months, thats another 60 days.. hopefully some more progress can be made.
Im still in
Last day, we'll all get through this one.
Congrats to everyone that made it.
Little over 3 hours left for me. This will be my first completed challenge since February which feels great.
The last day of JUNE!!!!! I made it sort of. We still have some hours left before the day is fully done.
20 mins to go to complete my first fap free calendar month this year.
Congratulations, to the strong, the few, The Proud, ACtive Participants who made it through!
Made it! Where's my medal? Haha
Finally ;D done 30+ days
No big deal, but where am I on this list?
I'd like to clarify that while I did not complete the challenge, I can't be lablled a "lame June jerk off" as I didn't jerk off in June.
Wow. Can't believe how many didn't make it. Good luck to everyone trying again in July
approx 73% casualty rate ! this might be the record for worst month.
The casualty rate is much higher. According to dvx's list, there are total 87+31 (one is a duplicate)=118 members who signed up. This is not correct. The list of members who signed up when Down was managing the June list was already much higher, to the tune of 135+ at least, maybe even 150. Many lapsers might not have updated, or Dvx might have missed out on updating his list. There also might have been some members who might not have confirmed their successful completion, and thus don't show up in either list.
Similar to my analysis of successful May participants, I'm doing one for June too, as some members were interested.
(May post here: www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=9098.525 )
So, at this time, 4th of July is progressing in some countries, while some of us would be yet to wake up to 4th morning. By the way, congratulations to members from the USA, and please keep upholding the right of Freedom, it is increasingly being taken away from the people in the modern world everywhere.
Onto some number crunching now. This comes with the caveat that both the June success list, as also the June lapsers list, are likely incomplete as some members might not have reported their status. The total number of participants by June 10th was at least 135+ (more like 150), and this is not reflected in Dvx's list that shows 116 due to reasons I laid out, but Down may provide some insight if he has saved his original first post.
The analysis is limited or rounded to PMO, i.e., how long the members of the June success list have not MO'd to P, or better.
Total in June success list:
32, corrected to 31, due to a duplicate entry.
Those who lapsed in June but incorrectly show up in success list:
Lapsers within these 4 days of July, so their data could not be analyzed:
Profiles not found in member database:
Those who do not show (relevant) counters in signature:
Total entries from June success list analysed:
3 members have their PMO counter reading 33-37
Kudos to these guys. They are the real winners of June challenge. Having fapped in the last week of May, they had it in them to go through the whole of June without PMO and MO.
7 members have their PMO counter reading 41-52
These guys comprise those who entered the June challenge with the confidence of already having been PMO-free for a solid 1 to 3 weeks.
6 members have their PMO counter reading 59-76
Great work from these guys. They did not just did one clean month of June, they already had a clean May under their belt (or very nearly for one member).
3 members have their PMO counter reading 99-111
Applause worthy effort. These three members completed their 90-day worth of reboot in June.
2 members have their PMO counter reading 180+
With 6 month under their belt, they are among the best of rebooters here.
Hope everyone enjoyed knowing a bit about the guys who go on to finish these monthly challenges.
Thanks for the info!!
You should run those monthly challenges.
Separate names with a comma.