***JERK FREE JUNE!** Sign up for June's NO FAP Here!!!!!

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by Lion, May 29, 2013.

  1. NewBetterMe

    NewBetterMe New Member

    I failed 6th and 11th. Clean from that time, but still out of the contest :(
     
  2. Werton

    Werton New Member

    Just a heads up, I just got added to the jerkoff list for the second time, despite having failed this way back on the 14th. I WISH I had made it this far...
     
  3. JW86

    JW86 New Member

    Still in.

    Almost out, but still in.

    Close encounter!! Thank God for sleeping pills when the urge truly is about to completely take over control.

    Phew..
     
  4. fuc

    fuc New Member

    im out :{
     
  5. Lion

    Lion Well-Known Member

    You only had one more day!?
     
  6. Hexxus

    Hexxus How about NO

    i am out oldies

    i know there was 1 day left and such but these things don't matter to grown ups

    i had to test something (orgasms in a row and pelvic tightness) to be fair with it i am not mad or anything just got some results, lately i feel a bit horny and excited overt girls, peanuts doing their job :D

    anyways i think in fact going without MO causes endless flatlines. It's my personal pov and i will never really go O free it's useless. iI have nothing t odo with porn for 4 months now and it's great!

    Also i did realize that pleasure i wanted to regain was not real, it is just not there, orgasm is not going to be any better than good cake or bacon or whatever the fuck you enjoy, it's about same hormones so feelings will be same as well. ciao lads.
     
  7. Lion

    Lion Well-Known Member

    lol ok
     
  8. WhirlwindTobias

    WhirlwindTobias Man Against Mediocrity

    I remember the last time I made a pledge, and upon breaking it said it doesn't matter to grown ups.

    Oh wait, that never happened. Breaking your word or failing to fulfil a goal you aimed to accomplish and coming up.with rationalisations or excuses is the opposite or what an adult does.
     
  9. Hexxus

    Hexxus How about NO

    Dude chill out for a second i did go 2 months Mo free there is nothing spectacular about it it;s like birthdays okay, say you are 21 and turning 22 in 5 july but u are so small at 4 july yet :D come on

    i know there are a lot of kids who have fun with this stuff but for some people like tommygun aussie game over it's really time to go beyond using simple logic.

    i said all above was my personal pov as hodgetwtins would say: DO WHATEVA DA FUQ U WANNA DO

    guys guys enjoy yourselves hope you all have some results
     
  10. Guys, cut the guy some slack. In the larger scheme of things, it really doesn't make a difference if a guy (P)MOs on the 28th or on the 2nd. This is a lifestyle change to break the P habit. And it seems he only MO'd anyway.

    Be kind to each other!
     
  11. WhirlwindTobias

    WhirlwindTobias Man Against Mediocrity

    I'm chilled, just giving my opinion. If I sign up for something, and I don't back that up I consider it a personal character flaw.

    I don't say "Oh it doesn't matter". Obviously this opinion isn't going to mold well with the average community member, but it's my opinion nonetheless.

    And I don't need to cut the guy some slack; he's clearly given himself an abundance of the stuff, haha.
     
  12. Lion

    Lion Well-Known Member

    Did you get laid last night?? (re: 9 hours since intimacy)
     
  13. WhirlwindTobias

    WhirlwindTobias Man Against Mediocrity

    Damn, you noticed that before I got around to making a thread.

    Not sex, hand-jobs (Yes plural).

    Anyway I've ejaculated 100% due to a partner (No interference beyond showing what to do and verbal cues-she had never done it before), 5 times for 5 in the past two days.

    Now bear in mind up until now I've never ejaculated without taking over or being in control, so this is a huge deal to me.
     
  14. Lion

    Lion Well-Known Member

    Good for you, Tobias. Congratulations. :D
     
  15. bruistopher

    bruistopher Guest

    Just wanted to let OP know. I am still going strong. I just signed up for the July challenge. I've seen so much progress with me. And the abstaining aspect as truly increased my confidence level in myself.

    Woo!!
     
  16. Kantianhero

    Kantianhero New Member

    +1


    I'm still in. I'm happy to say that I had sex a few nights ago and it was great! Things are definitely looking up for me in terms of my PIED, now I just have to get the rest of my life in order.
     
  17. JW86

    JW86 New Member

    I AM OUT.

    At 4am, 30th June, with just 20 hours to go.

    Pretty sure if I'd had sex a few nights ago, I would still be in as well. Fortune favours those not in long-distance relationships, not to take away from the sincerely good effort it takes, Kantian.

    Literally, balls were swelling, mind kept going to sex every other fucking second, even with meditation, mental redirection, positive self talk, shouting at myself, distraction, working with addiction self-help material, getting out of the house, etc, etc., the body wanted to cum.

    So after like 47 days, the body got its wish, using my hand for ten seconds to induce orgasm. Hell, it seemed less painful than laying awake for 3 or 4 hours EVERY NIGHT the last few nights..

    I even tried blocking the perinium to stop the ejaculate coming out.. I got (and still ahve) a stinging pain in my penis. I forced myself to cum the second time, in hopes of getting rid of the discomfort. Not worked.

    Now sitting awake at 4:45am, unable to asleep, upset with a painful penis, downing loads of water.. lol.

    I am of course angry at myself. In fact, I feel an astounding degree of depression. But don't say I didn't try, or broke an oath, or whatever. Piss on that. I went 47 days. My previous longest was an easy 50 days, but then again, my partner was here from day 28 onwards.. so really, 47 days is the longest I've ever managed without a pretty lady to share my desires with.

    Fully plan to pick myself up for July and onwards.
     
  18. Take it easy JW86, you weren't going to get a gallantry medal anyway. Not being able to complete 30 days does not mean your progress is nullified. Did you complete 28 days? Then you scored 93%, congratulations.

    I think the right spirit with the monthly challenges is missing. Let there not be any negativity here. The idea is to push your envelope, let's not become zealots.
     
  19. goodlife

    goodlife One chance. Take it.

    Only 16 hours to go until July (UK time). Let's keep our hands out of our pants until then.

    Lets face it though, none of us are (or shouldn't be) really doing this because of this thread, the bigger picture is about healing our addicted brains the quickest way we can and improving our lives for the better.

    This 'challenge' ends tonight, but the real challenge doesn't stop until we are living every day the way we want to be.
     
  20. Aussie_85

    Aussie_85 Guest

    Congrats to all the guys who made it through the month - it's been a tough month for me,i relapsed after 94 days no orgasm and it really fucked me up - i'm already out of the july challenge sigh.
     

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