Its NOW or NEVER ..time to take control of my life.

Hiya Joey,
You're welcome.
There's nothing else to do but keep trying and if you relapse just acknowledge it and move on.

In my days count I'm at 98 of trying to reboot. The relapses are just a necessary (for me) part of the process.

It's like swinging the bat is part of the process of getting a hit.
Screwing up lots of relationships is part of the process of finding a sweet hot girlfriend.

You don't have much perspective because you're young. But take my word on this...
It is much, much, much better for you to relapse a hundred times in the next year than be jerking off to porn when you're 27.

If you do have a relapse try to do it without porn or fantasies.
Be well,
Gettingthere

 

im currently on day 6 now. yes i know wat you mean im 20 now, and the hard part for me is masturbating with out fantasy i dont know how that is done lol, but imma take your advice and keep trying and also you are on day 98 that is great to hear man. you made your journal yet?

 

had a small relapse but im not killing me self over it, im getting back on the train and starting fresh, i was sorta experimenting and thats what led to it lol

 

yu guys know any good internet filters nt named K9

 

Hiya Joey,
I relapsed yesterday so I'm on day one.
But you're inspiring me to keep coming back and trying.
I think it had to do with me and my gf breaking up.
I have a journal called "winning". That feels kinda ironic today.
Be well,
Gettingthere

 

can you post a link of it, those journals are hard t find, yeah im currently going through a relapse phase

 

Hiya Joey,
I just looked back over your journal.
We've both been at this for quite a while. We both relapsed and we're both back.

When you relapsed was it with porn or did you jack off to fantasy?

What have you been doing about your "boredom" problem?
That's going to be an important question to ask yourself.
Maybe you can develop a strategy. Perhaps you could do something fun or go to some place where there is a decent probability that something fun will happen.
I hear the produce department in the grocery store is a great place to chat up chicks. Excuse me can you tell me which bananas are ripe? hahahah
Be well,
Gettingthere

 

@clean hands, how is everything going with you my rival?

@gettingthere porn. remember when you told me about masturbating to n fantasy , well olol i tried it and it work but it came with its consequences lol, had a total porn relapse after that.yeah im working on it , i gotta change up my habits a bit more.

 

Hiya Joey,
That's good you're trying different stuff to quit porn.

There's a good chance if you keep trying you'll find out what works.
Be well,
Gettingthere

 

and how is your reboot going ? how did ur relapse come about as a result of the breakup ,depression?

 

Hiya Joey,
Thanks for asking.
My reboot is going better. There are less urges to PMO
Also I'm talking to the ex so who knows.
How is your reboot going?
Gettingthere

 

MY reboot is starting on monday, do you know any other good web filters other than k9 and net nanny?@gettingthere

 

I use google chrome

 

Hiya Joey,
I'm glad you're starting to reboot.
I'm a complete computer idiot so I can't help on filters.
Be well,
Gettingthere

 

hard times ha ha

 

made it 2 day 7, had 2 rough days with close relapses but i made it

 

14 days and counting

 

thanks man, same to you, dont lose the faith

 

had a 2 day relapse, im treating it like a full blown outta control relapse lol

 

That's too bad.

You can do this if you want to.

You want to.

Now do it.

Be strong.