All you gotta do is up your game and approach. Those are the two main factors in getting women. By approaching I simply mean that the more swings you take the more likely you are to hit a home run. Don't make excuses either! Hit on anything that moves. Practice PRACTICE PRACTICE. Learn to think of all women as the same. It shouldn't matter if they are beautiful or just cute. Treat them all the same. Hit on them and try to get sexual too. The other factor is just working on your game! Learn to dress better. Get in the gym and make gains. Don't be needy...qualify her instead of her qualifying you. Don't lean in to hear what she says. Let her lean in to you! Don't try to impress her. Let her work to get info out of you.
Going out feeling good and looking good because you never know who you will meet. Genuine and truthful based on you. I find that when I groom or dress "bland", like the so called sweatpants and tee shirt image, I don't have as much confidence. I don't mean low self esteem or wussy attitude. But tell me who doesn't get jazzed up when they put on a great suit or something similar. I don't like suits, but I can't deny that they command more respect that sweatpants and misfits T-shirts.
I like some of the points you are saying. But take into consideration, you need to be happy and comfortable with your self before you start chasing women. Women will sense this and will instantly reject you. If you not happy with your self or the state of your life, what in Gods name think you going to make a women happy? The reason why most men find it hard to get women is simply one obvious reason - Some don't practice. One quote that lives with me is "Repetition is the mother of skill." If you keep on building your social skills and approaching women, you get better at it. Anyone can get girls.. You need to be happy and comfortable with yourself. You also need to have confidence too. Good luck!
This is the exact mentality that you want to avoid. Lets let other people take responsibility for their own happiness and well being. Especially if it is someone who you don't even know yet! This is how you get caught in an endless loop. "I'll be happy someday...when i'm more confident...when something about me is different...when I am in a better state of mind. I'm not ready yet. I don't have a nice car yet. I don't have the social skills yet. I don't have enough to offer yet. If I go out right now, I'll probably be rejected." And this loop spins in your mind over and over and over. This is what is known as a "mental block" in psychology. The 'vibe' that comes off from such a paragraph is inaction. It reeks of comfort zone mentality. As long as you have this mentality, you're letting your life pass you by in some way. You are restricting your ability to grow, and your ability to achieve your goals. You create your own reality - whether you are aware of it or not (your external world influences your internal world). In the 21st century, your chance to survive is greatly increased (as opposed to the stone ages, where consequences of our actions meant life and death). You can jump out of a plane, ask a hot actress on a date, or walk up to the boss of some massive company and ask him for a job. The likelihood that you will survive is nearly 100%. And, there is a chance that you might actually succeed as well. There is also a chance that you might fail, but the key is that you will survive. In today's society, our actions have an extremely small chance of leading to fatal consequences. Once you can grasp this fact, you open up a whole new world of possibilities, in which your deepest aspirations and desires are very achievable.
I agree with you but there is something from the post you quoted that we have to keep. That is that women can sense you! Don't go talking with women and say how much life sucks and how there is this thing bother you, you'll drive her away. That's cause nobody wants to be with a downer, and I'm not just talking about women now. If you meet a guy and start developing a frinedship and start talking about your depression too soon you'll tire him. Same goes with women, play it cool, lie a "little" and keep a positive vibe
It's easy? You're 33 years old and still having relationship problems and live with your parents, who are you to tell others that it's easy?
But isn't that what PUA promises? That every guy, even the basement dweller, can learn how to "get girls"? Do such protocols exist for ugly girls as well? How to seduce the millionaire, when your BMI is 35?
But if you've ever seen any of his posts before he's said a lot of dumb shit in the past, thus I find it hard to take any of what he says seriously. I think the first step would be 'lose weight'.
OPs hit anything that moves is actually gonna ruin your rep. A lot. And there is no reason to approach women you don't find attractive. He is right at not treating certain women like princesses, though that's a no brainer. Don't be that fedora guy
I'm actually 34 years old and still living at home, thank you very much. If I can get some girls, ANYBODY CAN. Even you losers! HA. Look, with that being said, its all about being confident and approaching regularly. Girls don't like timid guys so BE BOLD. Take Action and be a challenge!
i agree i think its wrong to attack your character when your speaking the truth. if anything you being a "loser" would push your point further. defending negative habits is something we have no use for
I read brit91's post, and found myself nodding and agreeing. Then Nethic came and slapped me outside the head. And I'm glad you did.
