Around the 1 year mark, I wrote a success story post. I came into this as a 26 year old virgin who has never slept with a girl. I had successful sex for the first time around the 6 month clean mark. But orgasms messed up my sleep. They gave me headaches. They made me irritable. I had a long way to go in recovery. Around the 1 year mark, I was dating multiple women and in the dating game for the first time since I was 19 years old. I was sleeping with all of them, which made me feel really good. Then out of nowhere, I started having erection problems again. The sleep problems came back. I had ED and couldn't get hard for anything. Pictures, video, porn, real hot women. Nothing. I freaked out. For the next year and a half, I struggled on and off with erections. Sometimes it was awesome. Sometimes I couldn't get hard to save my life! And this was with only ONE slip up. Which was seeing an escort in May of 2017. Around the time I started experiencing erection problems during my reboot, I met a wonderful woman who became my wife in September of 2017! She's stuck by me through the hard times. When I was irritable and when my penis wouldn't work. For the last 3 months, I've ramped up my orgasms through sex to push re-wiring to a new level. 4-6 orgasms in a 2 week period and then take a couple weeks off. My erections are improving even more! My loads are huge! I'm no longer getting headaches from orgasms and the effects are minimal. Sometimes when I O too often, I run into sleep issues. But things are moving in the right direction. This is after THREE YEARS CLEAN WITH ONLY 1 SLIP UP! The point is this stuff takes time. Abstain for awhile. Then rewire rewire rewire. There's no healing without rewiring. We have to rewire our brains to regular sex so our pleasure systems see sex with a real live female as the reward. Keep the faith, stay clean, and rewire!