I can't believe it took me so long (I'm 35) to realize that I just need to give up all this crap. Been M-ing since I was 12-13, porn started when I was in my early 20s. Never got into rough stuff like rape, even porn flicks didn't interest me. 90% had been "amateur" variety. Never done it because I had this enormous urge to watch porn. It was mostly because I was bored or horny. Have had some porn watching sessions that lasted for hours, but mostly it would be 30-60 minutes and I was done so to speak. Have had erection issues with females all this time but since it was mostly a 50-50 split, I told myself I was ok, stuff happens. Then a couple of years ago it wasn't a 50-50 split anymore, it was more like a 10-90 split. I had a suspicion that it had something to do with porn because I would be perfectly hard while watching porn but nothing with a female... and I still didn't do anything about it. Started dating this girl I am really into a couple of months ago. Got to the bed stage last week... and yeah, nothing. So..... I AM DONE. I don't need this. Without trying to sound like a self absorbed arrogant jacka$$, I am a good looking guy (or so I am told) who has no problems with meeting women. I work out 5-7 times a week and play different sports. I am very sociable and a funny guy (or so I am told). Next time you feel like checking out some porn site (if that ever happens), go have a beer with your buddies or go talk to some chicks at the coffee shop. I DO NOT NEED THIS. Today is Day #6. Tomorrow is gonna be Day #7. In 1,000 days, it will be the day 1,007. Because I am DONE with this. I can spend the rest of my life coming up with excuses why I didn't get hard and assuring the woman I am with that it is not her, she is beautiful and I just have this, um, problem... Or I can get my life under control and start being normal. I choose the latter. BRING IT!!!