is the chase better than the catch ?

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by dig deep, Nov 13, 2013.

  1. dig deep

    dig deep must stop wasting my life on porn

    I find the searching and saving is more addictive than actually watching a film or clip.When i find a film or clip that does it for me I just flick through it then move quickly on to find the next film or clip, does anyone have this problem.
     
  2. Lysander

    Lysander Member

  3. over_it

    over_it Active Member

    I certainly experienced that, the drive to collect endlessly. It never actually delivers so you keep chasing to get the thrill.
     
  4. jumbopaperclips

    jumbopaperclips New Member

    Yeah, this happens to me a lot. I'll end up having 30 tabs open before I end up watching the most perverted video. I hate it x_X
     
  5. stretcher

    stretcher New Member

    That's pretty much how I do it. Spend three hours opening tabs, maybe five minutes total actually looking at anything.
     
  6. BrEak-Free

    BrEak-Free Member

    Yep u're totally wright.it's all about the chase.
    I find it ironic that PMO is the only thing where i enjoy the journey more than the destination.
    :Sigh: i wish i could transfer this excitement to other productive areas in my life like career or social activities.
     
  7. daone

    daone Where I'm gonna be ought to be uncharted

    Yup..then when i do get around to watching it, it is boring so i go back to browsing for harder stuff...at some points my dick was rock hard for hours at a time.. :eek: now i want that to happen with a real life woman, not internet porn.
     
  8. TheUnderdog

    TheUnderdog Active Member Staff Member

    According to Robert Sapolsky, dopamine is about the anticipation of pleasure, not about the reward itself:

    http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2011/07/sapolsky-on-dopamine-not-about-pleasure-but-its-anticipation/

    Another interesting link:

    http://www.validatingparenting.com/?p=667
     

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