Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by determinedperson, Nov 23, 2014.
I am lucky, I have always been able to completely hold back my ejaculation how ever I am stimulated.
Yeah i guess you must have some hormonal and neutransmiter genetic predispositions for exceptional ejaculatory control just like you have for premature ejaculation (its known for example that Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors stop premature ejaculation). Some guys never had to try, they were just naturaly in control despite watching tons of PORN and masturbating daily like everyone else. Its definitelly about genetics like 75% and 25% training. There is only certain level for improvement possible through practice. Just like penis enlargement - there is a genetical cap how far you can augment yourself. You cant turn 5.5 inches into 8.5 even with years of practice in a stretcher. And you cant turn a natural born PREMATURE EJACULATOR into a marathon man (unless its all psychological which is a minority of P.E. cases)... I guess both of you had lucky genetical mixup to start with... as opposed to someone like me who cum under 2 minutes since age 11 and no amount of edging can fix that. So honestly your technique Metal wouldnt work for me anyway, because you must have some elementary control to be born with (aka balanced serotonin, dopamine, cortisol, etc)... So keep it to yourself you bastard or maybe PM me, i promise i wont go on CNN and tell the whole world
I wish I could cum quicker and I wish it wasn't scary for me.
Sometimes I never think I will cum
lol I wasn't born with any special chemicals believe me.
I use to suffer with premature ejaculation where I couldn't last a minute sometimes from over excitement or from just going to fast without pacing myself. Now now I can go as long as I desire, but going too long gets boring. So I can decide if I want to finish with the O or not depending if the person is worth it.
Anyone can learn to thrust fast and last for however long they want and wear out a women to the point of giving her an orgasm. It's all about practice and knowing where to position your penis when thrusting.
This is why someone like me doesn't have to waste time getting my hands dirty, fingering and hoping that they will hit the right point.
Maybe I'll pm you the technique, as you seem a knowledgeable and open minded enough person to be able to put into practice what I will spare my time in departing.
EDIT: Metal> All right. Iam one big ear I didnt know you were also P.E. sufferer... But i must warn you... after 19 years dealing with P.E. i probably heard about every technique there is Kegels, Reverse Kegels, Stop-Start, Squeeze, Million Dollar Spot, Microcosmic Orbit, Triangular Breathing, Mind Distractions, Arousal Scale, Edging, SSRI, Creams... i could go on... currently iam visiting doctor in Traditional Chineese Medicine (Acupuncture and Herbs)... if that doesnt work i dont know what i will do, because i tried everything...
I think a full boner is more important than total length. If you have a big dick but only maintain 70 or 80% erection, I think a dude with a 5.5 incher and 100% erection will be more satisfying to the woman. Plus the dude with the 80% erection probably won't even be as aggressive. Size matters but those with average dicks should compensate with sexual confidence and a bit of aggression.
i dont know about agression and "making" yourself more confident... but i agree with Borges08 that EQ (Erection Quality) is very important, i remember seeing few videos, mostly big black guys who had dicks like garden hoses - as long and as soft... such videos were pretty pathetic to watch... the guy basically stuffed his cock into the porn actress using his hands and he was moving like he is fucking her and they were both miming like they both enjoyed it... while the girl must clearly thought what a looser (if you have a big dick but its always like a dead fish its useless)... now i believe Ukdamon will say that he used to hammer nails with his dick back in high school just kidding
I can manage to not finish with my gal, but I can't go fast and hard for too long with experiencing PE. Anyway it allows me to still have sex while rebooting so I'm thankful for that. Personally I don't think size matters much, it's a fallacy of the porn world.
It was inevitable that this would happen; it is the internet after all.
Someone claiming to have 10 inch penis. Where did you start measuring from? Your rectum. Majority of the pornstars are barely 8 inchers with hardly any actually reaching 9 inch. So enough with this 8-10 inch talk; more lies created from porn.
Yes, size does matter and the bigger the penis the easier to make her cum and enjoy sex.
However, 5.5 is average and you shouldn’t have a problem making her cum and enjoying sex. What you lack in size, you should have make up for in hardness and duration. Work with what you have.
Trust me, having a larger than average penis isn’t that great as porn make it seems. In reality it is quite difficult to fully enjoy sex at times.
Lets not lie or sugar coat it to some chicks length does matter. On the other side some chicks dont like huge dicks. But either way bottom line a chick loves a guy that can eat her out. You can do that well enough and she will suck you for at least an hour in my experience after she is done shaking.
One of the most sensitive spots is located within in the vagina is actually right near the entrance. If you finger her a chick in a come over here type of hand motion gesture you should feel slight ridges closet to the front of her body. If you can angle your dick to hit this spot you can start off slowly then get a feel of how fast she wants to start out.
This may position it is actually an advantage for you in that you can hit it with the tip more easily. Although you have to keep your hand down there in a flat slight off her body so it doesnt slip all the way out.
I meant aggression by being showing more desire.
this is one of the most frustrating topics there is. 80% of males probably feel inadequate at some point - its a constant discussion and its being referred to so much in the comedy, add campaigns etc. and porn give utterly unrealistic ideas of what average is.
You are just fine and you have to live with what you have. If you mull over it and keep worrying you are losing the game. Am I tall enough? Am I rich enough? smart enough? do I have enough chest hair? too much?
Live your life and let others do the worrying. Its not easy but sooner you do it the sooner you will be happy.
Im lucky to have 8 inch as a white guy but honestly it doesnt really make all that much difference.....if a girl really likes you the size is irrelevant, ive only found it to matter on one night stands. Sex is nothing like porn, its not perfect...don't worry about it and just be happy with who you are
As a white guy? Dude, porn has brainwashed your mind. There is no significant difference between blacks and whites, it is a myth, and one that is pushed to crazy new heights in monster cock porn.
And as a white guy who's had sex with many black women…trust me, there is no difference, they love it.
haha well if you compare white and asian...theres a difference...lol ive been with many black and asian girls....but i fully agree porn has brainwashed us, if it hadn't we wouldn't be on this forum.
Yeah, that does seem to be true. My girlfriend is Korean, so…
Trust me I was brainwashed about the big monster cock for a long time…it's f'ing bullshit. Sucked me in.
I truly believe that an Asian dude with a 5 incher can satisfy most women perfectly fine. Sexuality is complicated, and much more than having the big one. BUT, you are right (I'm about 8 too), and it is a slight advantage with SOME women, certainly not all.
If you let a woman convince you that your penis isn't good enough then you need to toughen the fk up, i have a 5.5 too and i believe with my soul that my dick is big and if a girl doesn't agree then i will show her the time of her life and she will be begging for more.
Give me a break. This thread has nothing to do with P or PMO.
Well, I have a leg up compared to my Asian brethren, but my height, preexisting reinforced Asian stereotypes, etc. are all still going to work against me
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