im scared guys, please help

Discussion in 'Ages -19' started by trunald, Apr 26, 2020.

  1. trunald

    trunald New Member

    I started (I'm 19 ys male) the reboot 2 weeks ago, and I feel that my penis is useless and I don't get an erection when I see pretty girls and I understand its something natural, but in the same time, I feel like I'm becoming gay or bi ... I searched the internet and I discovered the HOCD, I'm straight and have been attracted to women and girls since I was born but I'm now having these damn thoughts and it's ruining my life, I don't believe in sexual orientation all I know is that guys should think and love girls and vice versa, so please if you believe otherwise just ignore this thread ... help me guys I want to cry and hurt my self but I fear the almighty punishment

    EDIT ... I have never watched gay porn, but I encountered some scenes in movies but I skip them
    Last edited: Apr 27, 2020
  2. BuildYourLife

    BuildYourLife New Member

    Bro if you are feeling this you have to look at your self an see what is happening. Just turn away the thoughts don't solve the problem, increase the problem.

    If something is happening, don't hate your self. Maybe this is a problem from porn tolerance and it will eventualy disappear. Just respect, love and accept your self.
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  3. LKe

    LKe Member

    Hey @trunald sorry to hear your in a bad space. First priority is to look after yourself and reach out to someone if you need to!
  4. BoughtWithBlood

    BoughtWithBlood Well-Known Member

    Relax, take a deep breath. What’s happening to you is part of the process. Just keep on keeping on. There are a lot of straight guys who went or have to go through this.

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