Many antidepressants reduce the libido : https://www.addictionhope.com/blog/sexual-addiction-and-medication/ So that should be helpful in the beginning. For me I also struggle heavily with agitation, but I believe it is mainly coming from my sex addiction. (urges/temptations) Haven't had anonymous sex in 5 years still have trouble sleeping when there is a chance or a temptation, because I'm too f*cking agitated then. It takes weeks for my brain to get used to a new situation, e.g. I get invited on my phone to a chat group for a party and there are some hot chicks in it and it makes agitated/excited. Even though I'm not doing anything. It sucks.