I guess it is high time I wrote in this section...

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by wecandothis, Jan 28, 2018.

  1. wecandothis

    wecandothis Member

    Some of you may know me, have read my posts here and there, but most of you don't. I was mostly a lurker in this forum, I read other stories, tried to relate them to mine, tried to find useful tips, tried to find the slightest hope somewhere. Now I am 25 years old. About two years after my no PMO journey began ( 6 March 2016, i was 23), I can safely declare that I am almost free of porn, masturbation, flatlines, and -on top of everything- PIED.

    Nowadays i can have sex with two condoms, without erection boosting medication, sometimes multiple times a day. I went from not having erections at all, afraid of sex, afraid of my girlfriends to having amazing time and enjoying a great sex life. And things keep improving, I expect more improvements to take part during the next years probaply. Rebooting and rewiring are a marathon, not an 100 metre race, be patient, abstain and REWIRE, REWIRE, REWIRE.

    In the begining of my reboot I would fall deeply in flatline after an O. Now I don't. I still get negative effects after an O sometimes. My face gets irritated, sometimes a get itchy eyes (sometimes I have to use eye drops), sometimes I become sleepy. All these might get better, but I might as well suffer from a light form of POIS, who knows, time will tell. ED medications, especially kamagra where useful. They helped me lose my virginity and overcome my anxiety. I can have sex without them now, but occasionally it's not a bad idea to use them.

    Huge changes took part in my life during the last two years:
    1. Found a great girlfriend who stood by me throughout all the difficulties.
    2. Graduated from medschool, and now I work as a doctor, I earn my own money, I help people, and I am planning to move to UK for higher training.
    3. I got my driving licence and bought a new car with my own money.
    4. I served in my country's army last year as a doctor, which was a great experience and gives me great pride.
    5. I learned tons of new things and got new skills, made new friends, visited 5 European countries alltogether.
    6. I overcame my shyness, my acne, became more hairy with a deeper, more masculine voice.

    I will post more about my experience and I will answer to any questions you might have when i find the time. I don't log often into yourbrainrebalanced during the last months, feels like I don't need it anymore.

    Special thanks to many people, whose posts where so helpful and gave me strength. Gabe Deem, The underdog, Charlie Marcotte, 40New30, dualwield, Recovered, A New Man, RebornAgain, many guys from RebootNation, many other guys I their names I don't remember, please excuse me, unknown heroes against the pandemic of porn and masturbation. You might not know me, but I owe you more than you know.

    I am sure things will get even better. Life without PMO can only become better. I will try to update often. Cheers!
     
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  2. simon1986

    simon1986 Member

    Great post! Proper success story right here.

    Thanks so much for posting.
     
  3. ECobb

    ECobb New Member

    Cute! Thanks!
     
  4. Fencepost

    Fencepost Member

  5. Yrotrt

    Yrotrt New Member

    That is great man !!
    Can you tell us about your approach
    How long your reboot was ?
    When did you start rewiring and how ?
     
  6. wecandothis

    wecandothis Member

    UPDATE, 33 MONTHS IN.

    Alright guys, during the last months my improvement was significant in many areas of my life. In terms of sexual functioning, I completely ditched Kamagra since last the first days of 2018, I do not use any erection boosting medication whatsoever. I think that during the last 12 months I had about one or two failures, which were due to already having sex the same day once or twice. I had sex about 10-15 times per month, I didn't live close to my GF so we weren't able to meet every day, but when we met we used to have sex every day. Sometimes I struggled with PE, especially when it was our first sex session after some days. But overall I can say that my performance was improving. I never flatlined during this year!

    Sexual perfomance was not a problem anymore so I focused in other areas. Unfortunately I got complacent and I relapsed about 5-6 times. I don't think these relapses set me that back, I was able to get back on wagon easily.

    I broke up with this girl about 2 weeks ago. It was a mutual decision I will move from the place I live in. No hard feelings at all. Now I will try to abstain from sexual activity at all for 2-3 months. I wish that this dry spell will spead up my recovery even more. When I engage in sexual happenings again I will propably use some Kamagra in order to make a great impression and defeat any possible perfomance anxiety we always have when having sex with a new girl. I am curious how my body will react then but I am confident that I will succeed.

    Furthermore, I did well in my first year working as a doctor. Now I have to move out of my place for further training, in order to become a specialist.
    I was much more comfortable as a social being, got acquainted to new and interesting people. On the other hand, I have become a couch potatoe during the last months, fact which resulted to gain weight. I will have to fix this.
     
  7. Mickeymouse

    Mickeymouse Member

    Hey what were you like the time you realised you were a porn addict? Describe me some symptoms pls.
     

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