My husband and I have been married for 7 years and are currently in a "reboot" . There have been nights I've cried myself to sleep because I so badly want to be intimate with him but don't know how to be anymore. We can't have sex right now and even if he wanted he doesn't respond to my touch. Does anyone have any suggestions? How do we stay connected while we're not physically connected? I feel myself mentally disconnecting from him too and it scares me.