How did girls react to your PE?

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by grego, Mar 28, 2016.

  1. grego

    grego Member

    I'm going to have a chance to get with a girl soon. I still have ED, and sadly serious premature ejaculation. I'll try to relax, and see what happens, but I'm being realistic with the PE issue. Has anyone here cum almost instantly from a girl before? What was her reaction like? It's one thing to ruin it for yourself, but another when there's so much embarrassment from her being disappointed.
  2. shattered

    shattered Member

    You'd be surprised what a girl will put up with if she likes you.
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  3. RebornAgain

    RebornAgain Beating my addiction one day at a time.. Staff Member

    If it happens the worst thing you can do is be embarrassed about it and apologize.

    It's happened to me before and I just made light of the situation. Told her she was too sexy and I lost control of myself.

    Worked fine. She's my girlfriend right now
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  4. dontgiveup

    dontgiveup Member

    -Make her cum first or give her a lot of pleasure.
    -If you don't get an erection you can be honest with her or make an excuse like "I'm taking some meds and the doctor said that this could happen.
    -If you cum too quickly you can always go for round 2
    -There's condoms that make you last longer
    -If you're drunk it helps with the PE. But sometimes it can be difficult to get an erection.
  5. grego

    grego Member

    I have PE after the first round too :( also ever since I got these sexual problems my refractory period has become HOURS instead of the 20 or so minutes it was before.
  6. Don't forget you also have a tongue and digits
  7. MAE2

    MAE2 Guest

    She couldn't understand( and didn't believe me) and why I decided to opt to go the escort route. I think sharing it destroyed the relationship in my case. Somethings you share with women and somethings your better off keeping too yourself. But that's just my experience.
  8. grego

    grego Member

    Digits? What do you mean? Obviously I can go down on a girl, but they want more than that
    Sharing what? Yall are too ambiguous with these posts! You can't hide PE, it just happens. You can't simply "keep it a secret" I have no diea what your comment is talking about
  9. Loleekins

    Loleekins Nemo repente fuit turpissimus

    Omg, this is getting painful to read. Blame porn for teaching generations of men that all it takes to make a woman cum is a dong the size of a Shetland Pony's and the ability to imitate a flesh piston jamming in and out of a cylinder for 30 minutes. Blame porn as well for conditioning young women to believe they must fake the cum after said prerequisite 30 minutes of flesh piston jackhammering.

    Grego, you're getting carried away with piv being the be all end all. Over 80% of women statistically polled over and over cannot get off with piv. Your odds on a chick faking from piv are exceedingly high. So high as a matter of fact, if it equated to a chance numerically of hitting a lottery jackpot, you'd be a fool not to play. I know, I know, not your girl! She gets off on piv! Yep. About those lottery tickets...I need to buy one...

    Anyway, the panic is an ego thing. Your ego thing. Sex as piv action by default is part of what makes men shitty lovers. When the only thing that “counts” as “real” sex is tab A into slot B, then every other sex act becomes secondary by definition. For over 80% of females on planet earth everything that the typical man considers secondary is what gets them off.

    Fingers and mouth. Your best way to make her happy. After that, do you think she'll care that you slide in and go 30 seconds to the big O? Nope. And RebornAgain is right, the "you're so hot I can't contain myself" line is absolutely the way to go. ;)
  10. dontgiveup

    dontgiveup Member

    Everything that Loleekins just said.

    I have a lot of problems with piv. But everytime I'm with a girl I give her a lot of pleasure and she doesn't really care about it. It's awesome, you should take this moment to be better at oral sex and masturbating a girl cuz when you get over the PE and ED problems you'll be a sex god!
  11. MAE2

    MAE2 Guest

    Telling a woman when your trying to have sex and can't because you lack experience or that i've been struggling with porn the last few years is not a conversation you should have in my experience. Women whether they will admit it, expect their men to deal with their insecurities and flaws, but when they realize you have them too, they lose respect for you. Women many times i feel want Superman, but when they get Superman minus the superpowers and just Clark Kent they then come to resent him. This is just my experience, so take it with a grain of salt. I personally never will put myself in that position again, but that's just me.
  12. Look man, I know you do. Everyone does. I'm just saying it'll make the PE experience much less embarrassing for you, and less memorable for her, if you have a plan B that'll get her there. It'll help take the pressure off in the future as well.
  13. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    Women put up with guys who dont have sex with them for months mate, they put up with alot if they like you.
  14. MAE2

    MAE2 Guest

    "Ok". Try denying American women sex, or not satisfying her sexually and see what that gets you. Some of you guys live in a different reality.
  15. kira

    kira Member

    Writing to follow
  16. grego

    grego Member

    So true. Especially when you're in college like me. You think a girl is going t obe patient with you when so many other dudes around? Lol nah
  17. Londoner

    Londoner Well-Known Member

    Just to clarify, digits are your fingers (and toes, but probably not relevant here). :)

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