Hi I'm a girl (ok woman) I'm divorcing as is a male friend. We have got really close, but not in a sexual way. We have talked about lots and I feel really priviliged hes shared this problem with me. I have spent the last few days reading lots about it and think I now understand a bit more. I'm not shocked or anything, just have an overwhelming sense of initmacy that hes shared this with me as it must have been very difficult as he really is a very quiet and private person. I love this person to bits as a friend. I'm a very touchy feely type of person, and he shys away from this, I understand a bit more why now. But we have had contact, not sexual at all, just closeness. Am I doing more harm than good while he is rebooting? We are spending alot of time together, the fact we are both seperating gives us an extra something in common. We arent a long term relationship potential for each other, but for now, I could easily take it further if it bought us both comfort. Would that be counter productive? We dont have any attraction phyiscally to each other, but there has been a moment when I really wanted to, that was before I knew about the PMO. (not that knowing that has altered it, if anything its made me want to do it more) Any advice.