Yes Phil Collins!! haha I'm a fan. Something I read on here, and its helped me have a breakthrough. - Having too much time on my hands leads to me relapsing - I'm the same! In the past when I've gone to the most extreme porn/webcam stuff its been when I've had time on my hands. Like right now for example, my gf has gone to work, I've come on here with an hr to spare, and have been sooo tempted to bash the old bishop. I'm really gonna make an effort to fill up every hour of my day so I dont tempt myself. Cheers man.