Getti Off to Oral Sex

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by Suture Up Your Future, Jul 5, 2021.

  1. I never thought about this until today, when I saw a few people here say they couldn’t get off from receiving oral sex. They implied that was related to porn, PIED, etc.

    I’ve never been able to get off from getting a bj, going back to senior year in high school with my gf. It never did anything for me and I just always assumed it was because it wasn’t my thing, didn’t feel as good as full sex, etc. I over-did it with the porn even way back then, so wouldn’t know any different.

    Can anyone explain how these two things are related?
     
  2. Finally here

    Finally here New Member

    I think it might have something to do with the idea that you’ve been masturbating so long that you can’t replicate the pressure and friction of your own hand with oral sex. Your hand is gonna be stronger than any mouth.

    Are you rebooting with a partner? If so, or if you have one in the future, see if, after some time off, your partner can get you off with lighter friction. Or don’t go all the way with oral, just use it as fun foreplay. Either way, full sex is better, in my opinion, anyway.
     
  3. PhoenixSun

    PhoenixSun New Member

    Even at 17 it was very difficult for me to get to orgasm from oral sex from a girl. I think I started masturbating at about 14. Never had access to porn at that age. I am now 59 and as hard as my girlfriend tries to get me off with oral, it's just not happening even though it feels amazing. I am wondering if there are relaxation techniques that would help a person's brain to better function to achieve orgasm?
     

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