Moderation doesn't work, abstinence doesn't work, weening off doesn't work. I've tried everything and failed time and again, so I gave up and decided to label it as moderation. David Ley's book's and articles aren't really useful for anything more than dealing with some latent shame. He makes a lot of false assumptions related to porn addiction (yes it is a real thing). I didn't mean to start some sort of trend to say that porn addiction doesn't exist and that we can all achieve moderation.