Re: My theory Bingo. I feel like this is a perfect example of the general situation people find themselves in (myself included). It's like you were bored, but you just did it anyway because you could and there was still some semblance of pleasure. And that's where the novelty of porn comes into play. You seek out just enough novelty to keep you going, and then when you get to the real world and real sex, there's no way that could compete or even come close to competing. I was the exact same way, I was (and kind of still am) completely BORED and TIRED with the idea of sex and porn (which had become the same thing to me, which it is not). Sometimes I would end up just watching it and not even MOing to it because, like you said, "Meh..." Which is a weird place to be in itself.