Finally realized...

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Wild Bill, Feb 6, 2019.

  1. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    You can just call me VC (Viet Cong) Charlie! LOL!
     
  2. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Ok a buddy of mine just started salsa dance classes with his new GF, her idea, and he advised I do the same. Ok I get it. Looking for a studio now
     
  3. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Lackluster performance with my primary concubine although the intimacy was nice because we kissed and made up. When my dick starts working again this girl's going to be put through her paces.
     
  4. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Had very strong morning wood that went on and off for hours. Slept late this morning that's how I know. Must be progress?

    My problems obviously are not physical but are completely psychological. Just read a Webmd article about using meditation and biofeedback to deal with performance anxiety.
    PE is the reason I abused Viagra in dating but it started when I was married. The ex liked it because she didn't have to "work" so hard. Stopping jacking off to porn has been less
    difficult than dealing with VIED, viagra induced erectile disfunction. That doesn't mean I have let my guard down a little about porn because I do catch myself skirting around the edges of porn. I HAVE NOT PMO'ed! I haved fapped a couple of times. That's coming to a complete stop now!

    I'm off the pussy carousel of dating. That was a waste of time and resources. Those women were not even close to deserving my time and energy. There's a lot of damaged women looking for men to latch onto for resources and protectection.

    Oh yes Bobo I'm looking for a dance studio as we speak!

    What a fucking rollercoaster this is!
     
    Last edited: Feb 9, 2020
  5. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Going to salsa classes Tuesday
     
  6. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    MW for the 4th day in a row and that's after I was with primary yesterday
     
    Last edited: Feb 12, 2020
  7. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    MW for the 5th day in a row
     
  8. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Sounds like you are on the way
     
  9. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Thanks! My dick still doesn't work worth a shit with a woman though
     
  10. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    It will, keep the faith, I don't think I you are 2 far from good things
     
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  11. Outsider.

    Outsider. Turning Simple Disciplines Into Massive Success

    Try to focus on what works (MW) and not on what doesn’t. Everything happens only in your mind so convince your brain that everything works perfectly. Try visualization and positive thinking. Try to stop thinking and writing that your dick doesn’t work with women etc.
    You're doing very well since the beginning so I’m 100% sure you’ll succeed once you’ll get a very positive approach.
     
  12. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Good advice Outsider thanks!

    MW for the 6th day in a row. Strong and sustained over approximately 2 hours that I can remember.
     
  13. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Good advice there from Outsider. Moving along. Did you like dancing class?
     
  14. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    I need to find another class. Class I was going to go to was midway through.

    I had a nice date with a lesbian friend of mine last night. She gave me an awesome blowjob to completion in the parking lot of the restaurant . I didn’t get very hard but it felt great and she was happy she made me cum. I explained to her what I was going through and she vowed to help me by being my sex therapist!
     
    Last edited: Feb 14, 2020
  15. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Find a class that starts at the beginning so you get full understanding and enjoyment . Try not to " blow it off " trust me!
     
  16. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Yes agreed. I'm looking
     
  17. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Oh yes! A good club will teach salsa and kizomba, the basics you want this--- kizomba for sure. If they can't find another dance studio. Trust me on this.
     
  18. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    MW for the 7th day in a row! I don't ever remember this happening at any time in my life.
     
  19. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    What did I suggest to you ? " You're sex life will be never like before!" Hello!!!! Welcome aboard!!!!
     
  20. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    I’m starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel
     

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