Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Wild Bill, Feb 6, 2019.
Thanks gentleman your guidance and encouragement has helped me stay on track.
Still. no. Fucking. libido....
Hang in there! Hang in there !
Question for you Wild Bill, if you don't mind me asking
If you don't have "no. Fucking. libido...."...what do you have?
BTW, the title of my journal is "Looking for love in all the wrong places"
Hmm--"NcBob I was wondering same thing ! Hahaha!
It’s strange I get morning wood approxiamately 3-5 times a week but when I’m with my primary it’s a struggle. It feels like my brain to dick connection isn’t there or weak. Part of my problem is I know that I’ve trained my brain to react to chemical rush from Viagra.
It wasn’t this bad a few years ago
it’s all psychological. I’m just waiting for my libido to come roaring back just like Bobo promised
It will. Hmmm? I am no doctor, ( not that they know anything anyway )but it almost sounds like your concerned about what your primary thinks. That's overly concerned, concerned to the point where you have almost forgotten this about you. I am sure the viagra gave you a false sense of security. My libido came back with Heather steadily and in time was roaring but I never forgot it was about me not my " primary" ( Heather ) I cared what she thought but it didnt overly concern me. If it didnt work out with her it would with somebody else. Relax with her WB but mostly important relax with yourself. I firmly believe it will come back steadily getting better and better. It never really goes away. Of course its psychological it's all psychological isnt that what pmo is ? Dude you will be ok ! Btw its only been 244 days its not 500 or 600 days which it could take. My "roaring "with Heather probably took 500 days it didnt start like it is now you know that, it got better and better. I know it's a long road remember I did it, relax you will be ok like I said just dont give up, I know you wont.
Thanks that really clarifies things and really helps! Yes Viagra gives a false sense of security and every single guy in my gym from 27-50 that I've talked to has said they're using it. They're using other things too.
Wow that's sad ! That's a degree of dis-- confidence in self that's beyond belief! And when it no longer works, which it will what will they do ?
Get to the point where I am. Hopefully they'll do something
That's their deal ! You are on a different journey arent you ? Who cares do you?
Of course I don't care! They won't listen to my cautionary tale anyway
Keep on keeping on !
My Euro sub called me tonight
What does that mean for you ?
Is that exciting for you or is it for her only? This is for you ?
Both I was actually thinking about her that day and she contacted me last night. Must be psychic
No no dude! THAT'S PSYIC NOT psyhic!
a good way (for me) to get PED use in control is to not wank to much so that by the time you get with your gal you'll only need a little hit.. It's well worth the wait. also the performance anxiety goes down when things are stable so if you pop viagra now and u get back together rest up between encountersand you'll be ripe on a low dose .
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