Finally realized...

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Wild Bill, Feb 6, 2019.

  1. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Thanks gentleman your guidance and encouragement has helped me stay on track.
     
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  2. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Still. no. Fucking. libido....
     
  3. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Hang in there! Hang in there !
     
  4. NCBob

    NCBob The 11th commandment: Thou shalt not peek:-)

    Question for you Wild Bill, if you don't mind me asking:)

    If you don't have "no. Fucking. libido...."...what do you have?

    BTW, the title of my journal is "Looking for love in all the wrong places":)
     
  5. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Hmm--"NcBob I was wondering same thing ! Hahaha!:p:D
     
  6. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    It’s strange I get morning wood approxiamately 3-5 times a week but when I’m with my primary it’s a struggle. It feels like my brain to dick connection isn’t there or weak. Part of my problem is I know that I’ve trained my brain to react to chemical rush from Viagra.
    It wasn’t this bad a few years ago

    it’s all psychological. I’m just waiting for my libido to come roaring back just like Bobo promised
     
  7. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    It will. Hmmm? I am no doctor, ( not that they know anything anyway )but it almost sounds like your concerned about what your primary thinks. That's overly concerned, concerned to the point where you have almost forgotten this about you. I am sure the viagra gave you a false sense of security. My libido came back with Heather steadily and in time was roaring but I never forgot it was about me not my " primary" ( Heather ) I cared what she thought but it didnt overly concern me. If it didnt work out with her it would with somebody else. Relax with her WB but mostly important relax with yourself. I firmly believe it will come back steadily getting better and better. It never really goes away. Of course its psychological it's all psychological isnt that what pmo is ? Dude you will be ok !:) Btw its only been 244 days its not 500 or 600 days which it could take. My "roaring "with Heather probably took 500 days it didnt start like it is now you know that, it got better and better. I know it's a long road remember I did it, relax you will be ok like I said just dont give up, I know you wont.
     
    Last edited: Jan 15, 2020
  8. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Thanks that really clarifies things and really helps! Yes Viagra gives a false sense of security and every single guy in my gym from 27-50 that I've talked to has said they're using it. They're using other things too.
     
  9. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Wow that's sad ! That's a degree of dis-- confidence in self that's beyond belief! And when it no longer works, which it will what will they do ?
     
    Last edited: Jan 16, 2020
  10. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Get to the point where I am. Hopefully they'll do something
     
  11. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    That's their deal ! You are on a different journey arent you ? Who cares do you?
     
  12. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Of course I don't care! They won't listen to my cautionary tale anyway
     
  13. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Keep on keeping on !
     
  14. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    My Euro sub called me tonight
     
  15. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    What does that mean for you ?
     
  16. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Bondage session
     
  17. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Is that exciting for you or is it for her only? This is for you ?
     
  18. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Both I was actually thinking about her that day and she contacted me last night. Must be psychic
     
  19. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    No no dude! THAT'S PSYIC NOT psyhic!:D
     
  20. breath

    breath Member

    a good way (for me) to get PED use in control is to not wank to much so that by the time you get with your gal you'll only need a little hit.. It's well worth the wait. also the performance anxiety goes down when things are stable so if you pop viagra now and u get back together rest up between encountersand you'll be ripe on a low dose .
     

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