Femdom, what if it's who I really am?

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by niskanen91, Mar 8, 2016.

  1. VJ

    VJ Member

    I am there too stuck for 17 years in same femdom shit
     
  2. Abhishek1152

    Abhishek1152 New Member

    So u also dont get aroused by vanila sex?
     
  3. weir

    weir Member

    I have been in cuckold fantasy for long but after starting my current stream i am come to realiseits just hardcore hardcore ++++ porn made me only get hard too this porn category
     
  4. wrest472

    wrest472 New Member

    I'm 35 y/o male and have never been aroused by vanilla sex. The only thing that has ever sexually aroused me is when attractive women physically dominate me. And my fetish was there since I was about 5 years old and is not because of pornography (which I didn't start watching until I was 18)... actually, I have no idea why I have this fetish since I actually had a very good childhood without any traumas whatsoever...

    So I wonder if it is possible to just ignore this fetish, and over time I'll be able to be attracted to vanilla sex for the first time?
     
  5. Abhishek1152

    Abhishek1152 New Member

    So are you unmarried yet? And what are your future plans?
     
  6. wrest472

    wrest472 New Member

    Ah, didn't realize I had a response so sorry this is a bit late...

    I've never been married. I've just spent my entire life having wrestling sessions with women (which has been fine with me), and I've even been in videos for actual production companies (competitive mixed wrestling). I'm not sure if marriage would be a good thing since sex just doesn't do anything for me (and she'll probably want it).

    So has there been anyone on here that had a "true fetish" (meaning unable to be aroused by anything else except their fetish) and was able to ignore it for long enough (and do whatever else needed to be attracted to vanilla sex) to finally be able to have regular sex? I actually love my fetish though and am not ashamed of it at all (except that it's kept me from a more normal life such as marriage)... but I still wonder if there’s some way I could re-program my brain to be aroused by intercourse (and pussy) even though those things have never aroused me...
     
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  7. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    When I was 15 years old I was in Indonesia and women back in the 70's women went topless there. One day I was at the beach and this hot Aussie woman walked over to my father and me with her giant tits with milk coming out and her baby nursing with milk dribbling every where. She was only wearing a bikini bottom . I could barely keep my boner contained. I picked up a lactation fetish from that incident at a young age.
     
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  8. winning

    winning Member

    Holy fuck. Talk about a baptism of fire. What a mind implosion that must have been, I can only imagine.

    Wonder what your dad thought lol...
     
  9. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    We talked about it afterwards and I could tell he had the same reaction. He was worried about the baby though. He didn’t think it looked 100% healthy. The Aussie couple were artsy hippy types
     
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  10. winning

    winning Member

    Crazy stuff. Not many 15 year old boys are exposed to something like that.
     
  11. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    I've lived an interesting and unconventional life.
     
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  12. wrest472

    wrest472 New Member

    Women are "down for anything" if they like the guy enough (meaning it's true love, and not just a convenience marriage)...
     
  13. fedmom

    fedmom Member

    I've made a thread on this which is in my profile under the "information" section then "find all threads".
     

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