Femdom watching limp dick to absolutely slamming. This is 100% beatable.

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by WanderingSoul, May 4, 2018.

  1. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Member

    I finally did it boys. After all this time, all the pain, the misery, the crying, the hopelessness. All the questions about myself and why I am different, why i couldn't fuck. Why I had to be into this weird porn and not able to just enjoy regular relationships or sex. I remember waking up so many times in the last 6 years and asking myself "why am i different? Am i just meant to be into only femdom and never regular sex? How do i live this life as a femdom freak? I have never been into regular porn, does that mean I can't have regular sex?". Well we we're right boys, the porn was warping my mind. ABSOLUTELY YOU ARE MEANT TO HAVE NORMAL PENETRATIVE SEX, DON'T LET ANYONE OR ANYTHING CONVINCE YOU OTHERWISE. It turns out our penis really does have a mind of it's own, and believe me, it wants to fuck. Sure, femdom or some weird kink may tickle your psychological fancy, and that's fine. But everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, is into sex. i don't care how weird or different you think you are. Your PIED is a product of your own mind, and if you can get it under control, your dick will finally be freed and you can fuck. I am going to post extensive help for people tomorrow, but I'll start by posting my success story. Note, this is a success story about a guy who:
    1. Never masturbated to regular intercourse for the 1o years he watched porn
    2. Only watch increasingly disturbing femdom porn and was convinced for a long time that he could never have regular sex.
    3. Had multiple incidences of losing his boner when he went to penetrate
    4. Had intense depression and anxiety because of this problem
    5. Detached himself from dating and hadn't been with a girl in over a year

    Two days ago i was hooking up with a girl, full boner everything normal, and then I go to put it in and just like always, it goes limp. She was understanding though because I told her the truth (I will be talking about the importance of coming clean about your life). We dry humped, I just focused on her skin, how it felt, how she tasted etc. She literally grabbed me at one point and said "hey, stop being in your head and focus on me". So I returned my focus to her and just enjoyed her presence. The embarrassment of limpness already happened so I had nothing to lose now. This freeing up of my mind allowed me to enjoy her and voila, I started getting hard. I started fucking her with an almost full cock. i kept shutting off my mind and the more I did this, the more I was able to enjoy her vagina. It doesn't matter what you are into, the feeling of a vagina around your cock is a pleasant one and if you shut up your stupid mind, it'll be pleasant for you. Before you know it I was relaxed, and slamming her hard. This was the warm up.
    Yesterday we chilled again and this time it was fully a go. Full confidence, i absolute railed her to the point she was in pain all day today. I was hard as a rock and i can honestly say i never would have dreamed i would be able to do this to a girl. Once you are in that pussy, all that weird shit you are into doesn't matter. Once you are in that pussy, you will realize this is where you we're meant to be. All of those kinks are just things the mind picked up. Sex is as natural as possible, its the most fundamental thing, and if you can read this sentence, you can have sex. I promise you. Keep believing, keep sticking it out. I love you and believe in you. I will post full tips on how I achieved this over the last while soon. Stay strong and good luck
     
  2. WastedYouth

    WastedYouth Member

    Well done mate.
    You must be feeling on top of the world right now.
    So you been trying to quit for a couple of years?
     
  3. simon1986

    simon1986 Member

    Great that you're enjoying your sex life and feeling recovered.

    Of course, I have questions which hope you wouldn't mind answering?

    1. How often are you having successful sex

    2. It took you 6 years to recover? That no pmo the whole time?

    Thanks and congrats
     
  4. CJJackson

    CJJackson Member

    Congrats man I knew you had it in you
     
  5. Naruto558

    Naruto558 Member

    omfg good job homieeeeeee. much love hope you never have to go through that much shit agian its all in our heads just like I told you brother. I knew you had it in you dude im so happy for you. Have an awesome life buddy
     
  6. Fencepost

    Fencepost Member

    How long was your porn-free streak before you discovered you were recovered?
     
  7. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Member

    Long time for me to reply, but thanks Naruto. I hope your journey is going well. Tell me about it if you have a chance
     
  8. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Member

    Thanks buddy
    I did a 30, relapsed. a 90, relapsed. then another 30. Then i binged on porn. Then i went on a streak. I would say overall i just did it less and less. I think a key for me was believing I could have sex. When you go into it thinking it's going to suck because it won't work, then that's what will happen. Just keep reducing how much you fap till its down to once a week, and make sure no porn. Then when you are going to have sex, stay relaxed and shut off your thoughts. Let biology do the rest.
     
    Last edited: Sep 4, 2018
  9. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Member

    Yes but it doesn't take 6 years. Its more so just about not being dependent on porn and being able to shut off your mind during sex. You need to learn to literally think with your dick instead of using your dick as a joystick for your fap addiction.
     
  10. WastedYouth

    WastedYouth Member

    Inspirational mate.
    I think you are right. I met someone new and I think PA crept into the equation as well as no PMO or MO during the dry spell period. Admittedly I was on Tinder during the hiatus which probably didn't help but it did help in other ways.
    Cutting out all online stimulation now (dating sites) and of course no porn is the norm for me.
    Using a web filter too to protect my kids a bit but they're smarter than me with VPNs and such.
     
  11. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Member

    Wasted youth, its just a simple matter of reprogramming your mind to associate real women with sex. You shouldn't ever get horny when not around women, that is the ultimate end point of nofap reconditioning. You see a tinder girl, you see a picture or video online, and your brain knows- oh this isn't the real thing, no need for horniness. Technically its impossible to go all the way to that point because your lizard brain will always be tricked by the stimulus, but your higher level reasoning centers should be able to exert top down control over the lizard brain and stop the horniness for the most part.
     

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