Femdom porn users - any of us left on the forums?

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by NewHope972, Oct 11, 2018.

  1. NewHope972

    NewHope972 Member

    Hey guys ... as the question states, are there any femdom porn addicts still active on the forums?

    I have been away for a while, and it seems that the main femdom group (https://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/forum/index.php?threads/screw-femdom-open-group.25936) has died down due to inactivity.

    If so, please check in! I'd love to hear where you guys are at on your journey! I truly believe that we can overcome this, as we had two users who started off watching femdom very young (Doctormountain and WanderingSoul) have successful sex so far :)
     
  2. niskanen91

    niskanen91 Active Member

  3. NewHope972

    NewHope972 Member

    Hey bro, sorry for the late reply .. been a bit busy. How are you doing man? Have you managed to cut porn out of your life to some extent?

    I rarely watch femdom porn (or any porn really, since regular is not even that exciting) nowadays. Making myself very busy with work + training in the gym. Social life is semi-active, so I can fill in the gaps of free time.

    However, I'm still not where I'd like to be. Though I will now get hard-ons when talking to girls, touching them, hugging them, holding hands etc., when it comes to actual sex my dick still goes limp. I don't think it's a wiring issue at this point, since I get genuinely horny by even more innocent activities, but instead heavy performance anxiety. My whole life I've believed that I'll never satisfy a woman properly, that I'm not good enough, had low self-confidence when it comes to sex, etc. and that behavior/mindset is hard to unwire and it obviously affects intercourse.

    My plan now is to visit a prostitute, but for the first time I've explained my situation properly. I told her about PIED, said that I might need multiple sessions to ease into it and that she shouldn't feel bad if I don't get/stay erect and she said she understood and would like to meet. I'll let you know how it goes.

    For clarity, I've visited 2 hookers before, and both encounters were bad because I just expected I was gonna "power through" it and that it would work. My dick was not rising up to the occasion which was making things awkward and killing my confidence even further, and thus also my erection. PA was through the roof lol. This time when we're all on the same page I'm hoping I'd be a lot more relaxed and in the moment.
     
  4. Stew1890

    Stew1890 New Member

    Femdom addict here and really deep in with porn and real life addictions with dommes. Severe PIED as well. I am new to this forum and recently made my first post earlier today. My post is in the Porn Addiction section and the title is called "New here and at a loss" if anyone cares to read.

    I am determined to get my life back but I have tried this many times before and failed miserably. I think I am a bad case because it has escalated to real life servcie and slavery to a few woman. Despite me being terribly addicted to serving them, these are very unfulfilling relationships, very humiliating, waste of time. These woman can care less about me and only see me as a means for making money, using and abusing me. Most sensible people would recognize this and walk away, but i think they have managed to mess my head up really bad. This and the porn all these years.. If anyone else has experience with real life femdom relationships and been able to recover and stop seeing the woman they had those relationships with I would be grateful to hear from them.
     
  5. CJJackson

    CJJackson Active Member

    I never escalated to femdom in real life or anything like that. I mostly just got into foot fetish stuff and it kinda spiraled from there. About a year ago I was heavily addicted used to watch stuff like 4-6 times a day and sometimes even more. Within the past year I’ve prob watched the amount of porn I would’ve watched in a 2-3 week span so it is possible man I never thought I would recover. You should consider counseling I know it’d prob be hard to talk about but I’m sure you could find out a way to deal with it better. Good luck on your journey!
     
  6. CJJackson

    CJJackson Active Member

    Hey not sure who else looks at this anymore. But I just wanted to post some thoughts. I was addicted to this genre of porn since I was like 13-14 years old. About a year ago when I turned 21. I decided I had to stop doing this or it would ruin my life. A year has gone by and I’ve rarely watched porn of any kind. Probably 30-40 times total compared to 3-4 times a day. All I can say is if you want this enough you can be free of the addiction. For years I wondered why I was so fucked up and into this stuff. The truth is you aren’t born this way porn fucked us all up and we may live with some shame and regret but we can move on from this and let the past be the past. I still haven’t fully kicked my porn addiction. But I know I’m close. I now know I will never go back to the hardcore stuff and if I have a day where I slip up it’s right back on the horse. Just know that this is beatable but you have to love yourself and commit no one is gonna do it for you. God bless and feel free to write back!
     
  7. Femdom porn user here. Just wanted to bump this thread to see if anyone else has managed to beat this stuff.
     
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  8. UK Don

    UK Don New Member

    New member here bro, looking to kick it. Just signed up today, story on my first post if anyone fancies checking it out.
    It hit me hard today I’ve wasted my entire youth on this bullshit, and this time failure is not an option.
    God speed to anyone on this battle with me.
     

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