I'm sympathetic to the draw of Facebook but I'm with the haters. It's no good. I never joined because I already experienced the negatives of Myspace, but occasionally I look over my girlfriend's shoulder when she's using it and all of sudden I'm feeling hate, judgment, comparison, boredom . . . just a whole plethora of bad stuff. And jesus christ, I just learned about "life events." Ugh! It turns everything in your life into a commodity. Not to mention, yes, the many, many opportunities to relapse and objectify. Stay strong.