Married 5 years to a man 15 years younger. We literally didn't have sex the first year of our marriage because he had ED. I knew it before we got married but still went ahead with the wedding because I loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. He was addicted to porn and masturbated lying on his stomach squeezing his penis tight. These two reasons attributed to his ED, besides a prostrate infection. Thats what the doc said. He got off porn and I helped him masturbate right, gradually reducing pressure. Medicines took care of the prostrate infection. It took almost a year for things to improve. Since then, things have been a tiny bit better. Heres how it is.... I can understand that men have more sexual needs and hence the groping. Although if the woman feels offended, he should cease and desist. Period. My predicament is somewhat strange. My husband gropes, fondles and dry humps at every opportunity. In the kitchen, while watching TV, while passing me in the corridor, while driving..... Explicit suggestive flirting too. But theres no real action. He can barely do it once a week. He turns you on and then the tap runs dry. What do I make of this because this is sure driving me up the wall!!!! I am scared to initiate sex precisely because I know how it will end up. He ends up not finishing and I know it isnt a pleasant thing for any man's self-esteem. Ditto for the woman. I look forward to responses from men from a man's perspective. Why does he do this?? Thanks.