Hi I am a 21 year old who is in a relationship and I have realized that no matter what I do I can’t get my dick to get fully hard during foreplay with my girlfriend that I love very much. We both are new to having sex which doesn’t help in any way. The other night we were in the middle of foreplay and I was hard however once it actually got down to actually getting the job done my dick went soft and I never felt so low before. However, whenever I watch any femdom content or something like that when I am by myself I am able to stay rock hard for so long. After this incident with my girlfriend I stopped watching for a little over a week and I felt so much better like I was making some kind of progress in the right direction. However I failed and I am ashamed with myself that I won’t ever be able to have sex with my girlfriend. What should I do? How do I get out of this cycle and out of my mind that I won’t be able to have sex?
