I started PMO when I was 19 . First time I had sex was 20, didn’t go well, I was very confused why I couldn’t get it up . Eventually i did and I finished . Never figured it was porn that was messing me up . Stopped using porn aged 28 ( I know 8 years). Been 3 years since I’ve watched porn. Got a girlfriend now and she’s understanding , I told her the first night it happened. Anyway I get it up enough to have sex but it’s not as hard as I would like, ie it doesn’t hold itself up ( when I’m on my back my dick rests on my stomach) . I loose the erection about 80% of the time ( mainly when she’s on top ) . Before I met her , when I stopped whatching porn I didn’t Fap for a month or so. No orgasm either . I remember getting a boner just taking my pants off after work and it stood to attention , I was very pleased and surprised . About a month later I met my girlfriend and it hasn’t done that since . (2 years ish) My question is do you think I should go hard mode some more . ( no sex ) ? Any advice would be appreciated. Also morning wood is few and far between and I’m pretty sure my dicks got smaller . ( when it was hard that one time is was back to full size) I did read that if you don’t use it and you don’t have boners in your sleep then it can shrink ) any way onwards and upwards ( excuse the pun ) Thanks . Dave .