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Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Absolutely right, but my brain is still confusing McNugget's with a 5 star gourmet meal. However, it's rewiring right on schedule, it won't be long before all those confused circuits adjust.

What about the nose thing? Anybody?

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Sometimes I would rather have the McNuggets. I have no idea what you are talking about the nose thing.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Thanks, Bad Onion, I know most people don't even notice it, but we generally breathe out of one nostril or the other at any given time of the day.

When I started to reboot, mine nose thing became very noticeable, and I don't think I had it for years.

That's kind of funny...porn is very much like fast food. Tastes amazing, but has no nutritional value, and is in fact bad for you. Some people have alluded to the fact that fast food is a super stimulus just like porn.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Fast food certainly does have nutritional value. Now you are just being silly.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Fast food has nutritional value but the ratio of nutrition to calories is probably much less favorable than it is for less processed foods.

McNuggets will keep you going for a while and they taste good but fresh vegetables and lean meats are much more desirable IMO.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Well done to you 40new30 . Keep going strong . Dont give in to the porn . Get all the O from the real sex with your gf.

@badonion are you a troll? 2 strange posts without much to say. It seems you are trying to annoy people. Maybe not but just a hunch

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

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Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Sorry if I am wrong. Maybe I just misread your comments or took them out of context. Well done with the progress of your reboot too badonion

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Thanks, Chopper. I think BadOnion just has one of those sense's of humor that can be misconstrued when reading text.

I'm having a lot of porn flashbacks lately, they have no power and give no urges, but they do pop in there...then I just let them go.

Glad to see everyone is doing well, it's a great time of year. Merry Xmas to all!

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

We ironed it out by PM. But my comments about food were dead serious. I hate food extremism.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

The flashbacks seem to go away in time. It's pretty rare right now.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Update:

After a huge long night partying just last night I have NO URGES to PMO. That is incredible, because jerking off after partying used to be completely unstoppable in my life. My brain has changed quite a lot.

So, no urges, and continue to have night wood pretty much every night.

Oh, one other thing, I wasn't able to hold the damn back from orgasming again...this was few days ago. So, I was orgasm-less for around two weeks.

I feel just slightly, like 10% less "ready to have sex", so I don't believe I've been sent back into flatline. However, I do expect my erections to continue to improve for quite a while yet.

I absolutely plan on keeping orgasms infrequent and attempting to go most if not all of the winter without orgasming. In a way this has nothing to do with a reboot or no PMO, it's more of a Taoist regeneration technique.

Keep going, boys.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Another update:

I O'd again last night and...no urges to PMO, libido is still intact, definite mind to dick connection, no depression, no anxiety. I'm well on the way to a full recovery.

Actually I'm still shocked that these O's are having little to no effect. When I used to O is was so dangerous and definitely set me back. Once you get to this stage it's truly amazing...you can have a "normal" sex life.

P.S. I do plan on going 60 - 90 days no PMO in the dark months, probably starting January 2nd. It's good for discipline and just plain building chi energy. Orgasms are NOT necessary things.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Gold

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Update:

Hit a wave of depression yesterday. But, I think it was just a gluten allergy acting up, I'm all good today. And I will be having sex tonight...nothin' like the real thing!

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

There's a song in that. Well, at the very least a Coca-Cola jingle.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Hi 40New30,
thanks for the congratulations and also congratulations to you for reaching 90 days.
And success for the job tonight.
I´m only a bit jealous, no GF, no wife no WD.
Libertad

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Thanks, guys!

Something very interesting has happened the last two times I orgasmed. I orgasmed again last night, I didn't plan on it, but once I was doing it I didn't want to stop.

I got really tired afterwards.

Last night, I fell into a deep sleep and slept for like +11 hours. That is not like me, and that is definitely not like me when I'm on a no-PMO streak, I can't sleep more than 8 hours.

I'm obviously not quite ready for regular orgasms...so I'm going back to no PMO, just like I had planned. I guess in a way I wanted to see what would happen on a more regular O frequency. Definitely not ready, but that's good to know, it's really what I felt intuitively anyway.

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Another quick reminder, not really an update:

But, meditation is key.

As I'm recovering more and more, I have more and more energy; and this extra energy can indeed be negative in nature. White hot, very yang. And when this energy turns negative it can pack a whallup and bowl me over.

Therefore, keeping tabs on my emotions + emotional brain centers and actively steering my emotional states is critical to my evolution...and I imagine to many of ours, if not all of ours.

Onwards, men...

 

Re: 40 is the new 30...going for 150 to 200 days no PMO

Indeed 40New30, very well stated friend.

The extra energy is an excellent observation... this time last year I really got back on a pretty sweet exercise regime for the first time in years... extra energy indeed!

Yes onward brother.