Did you use to watch "boy-girl" porn or solo female porn?

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by ultrafabber, Apr 24, 2019.

  1. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber New Member

    I'm asking because i firmly believe watching "boy-girl" porn is much worse and damaging than watching solo female porn. But that doesn't mean the latter is ok to use, it's more like smoking a regular cigarette as opposed to smoking crack cocaine.

    I'm asking because in my case i noticed i was getting aroused *more* by watching women get f%% then by watching solo women, which is very disturbing.

    I talked a lot about how the experience of masturbating while watching others have sex is extremely wrong and NEW (this was something virtually unheard of until a few decades ago) and i''m curious to see how affected people are, especially considering that nowadays "boy-girl" porn is 90% or more of the porn in existence. There's one more element that is even worse - the fact that a lot of porn is interracial. And this is not "racist" at all, it's just that if you are white and you see a black actor f$%ing the woman it's 100% obvious you're not him (and you're a cuckold/voyeur), or vice-versa (if it's a black guy watching a white porn actor). The color difference makes it impossible to "identify" as him. Arguably you will never be able to properly identify with anyone, it's just that there are degrees of identification.

    I will want to make a separate topic later looking for differences in compulsive masturbation between people that watch(ed) women solo and people that watched intercourse.

    I assume that the ones that watched intercourse were more prone to extreme compulsions (multiple times per day) and/or much more times per week than the others.

    In the meantime, you're welcome to share your thoughts. Especially if you think b/g scenes made you escalate in use (more masturbations/day)
     
  2. FUBB

    FUBB Member

    That is pretty boring - a woman playing with herself and making all manner of fake noises.
    Intercourse is natural, so why is it disturbing you that, that is what people enjoy. Watching a women masturbating is kid of dull by comparison, don't you think?
    I am not sure where you got that figure from. But I propose that gay porn alone is way in excess of 10% of the porn in existence. I think shemale porn is growing also.
    You say this because some porn features one black actor and one white actor. I don't see why skin colour prevents someone from imagining they are participating. :confused:
    At least you acknowledge this is an assumption on your part (compared to your earlier assertions). I suggest there would be few that watched only solo female porn.
     
  3. ultrafabber

    ultrafabber New Member

    It's natural to HAVE intercourse, not to watch another man having intercourse with the woman you'd want to. While you masturbate. That's completely abnormal and very NEW. Sex was a very private thing up until very recently and the only erection you saw was your own.

    90% is a number supposed to show how much b/g dominates the porn industry. It's not supposed to be exact.

    Of course color matter, the same way it would matter if he missed and arm and a leg and you didn't. You can't "identify" as him so you become the watcher.
     
  4. selfdiscovery

    selfdiscovery New Member

    Know what? Porn is porn....whether it's actively watching high-speed internet stuff (which our brains were never made to handle), pictures in magazines, dirty romance stories, whatever. If it feels wrong - and gets the heart rate elevated before indulging...it's the wrong place to be. But, since you asked, my weakness is in the area of porn directly showing MB. I've never once watched anything involving a couple having intercourse - no interest whatsoever. At this point, while I still relapse, I deep down find all of it a bit repulsive. It's a struggle with myself - can't watch it...can't stay away though at times.
     

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