Desperation mode (Please help)

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by Facundo, Mar 26, 2018.

  1. Facundo

    Facundo Member

    So I'm a 37-year-old guy. I have been porn and masturbation free for nearly 70 days. I have been seeing a girl for the last two months and strangely I was having strong erections just holding her hands or kissing. Yesterday we finally slept together, and at the moment I was about to penetrate her I went completely soft, and not only that, but I also ejaculated immediately. The night was a complete disaster. I'm afraid she may dump me, how can I overcome this? I feel like a complete failure. Has anyone experienced this before? Should I take a boner pill?
     
  2. FritzBrause

    FritzBrause “You dogs, do you want to live for ever?”

    Sounds like you have a slight case of the nerves, which can happen. On the bright side, you've got most stuff sorted out already. For me, sleeping with a girl i have already slept with is much easier and less awkward than a new one. So if you took something to get you through the awkward beginning, that might help you. You might want to tell her about what's going on with you, so she realizes it's not something permanent but rather you getting used to her. If she's interested in you as a person, she will probably be understanding. Maybe you saw this already? https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-do-i-tell-my-new-girlfriend
     
  3. Facundo

    Facundo Member

    Thanks for the feedback. I actually told her about my problem yesterday, and she seemed to understand and offered her support. I've been porn and masturbation free for nearly 90 days, and I am in a good road to recovery.
     
  4. FritzBrause

    FritzBrause “You dogs, do you want to live for ever?”

    Best wishes!
     

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