I've been reading old books. i also like old movies. maybe because i'm old. anyway. seems to me the people in these movies/books all have one thing in common-decency. yes, there are bad guys, villains, and good guys, heroes. but what i mean what comes across, their demeanor is decency. not a word used these days, maybe because the meaning is unknown. what I mean is saying " please, thank you, yes maam, yes sir. can i help you with that. not a bother. anytime. my pleasure. how are you today?, you go first", back when someone said i will do it. and you could count on it being done. etc. etc. now i'm sure there were kids and adults waxing the dolphin back then too, but it was not so obvious. maybe i long for a time like Mayberry. so my daily aspirations are to be like these decent people. i know for sure if i want to be decent, there can be no porn. enough of my ramblings.