DAY 90 But still not success.

I fail to understand I came here with a sense of despair and you call it personal use. You remind me of those days when I felt extremely low. I seek only help.

 

I would go as far to say that the 90 day goal has no more significance than an arbitrary milestone that someone has created. I think that it would be helpful to ditch it as a slogan altogether on these online forums. It only provides false hope to the majority of addicts here. It is meaningless as a guideline to recovery.

 

90 Days is like opening the door. The rest of your life is walking through that door and channeling the wasted time and power you put into porn into other disiplines and habits.

 

Hey man are you here........
Now how is your health..... May be some improved..??
You are right.... Your all symptoms match.. Due to execive masturbation.....
Please meet to a homeopathy doctors
Your all symptoms meet to HOMEOPATHIC Medicine (ACID PHOS)

 

No not much changes.

 

I have never had sex even once in my life. I am 24 at the moment. And in my culture we are virgin till we get married. Also I feel my pennis has become small in size for sure. Nd after urination also it leaks.i kind of feel like my pennis has become week.

I have also developed kind of knee osteoarthirtis. Just at the age of 24. It's not that bad. But in early stages according to the physio therapist. These exvessive doing of PMO has spoilt my life. May be doing it in growing age like 13-14 yrs of age doest let body develop fully or makes the bones and muscles weak.

 

Not exactly. These all used to happen before I realised there is something wrong. Sometimes it gets erect but but takes a lot of manual stimulation and effort.


All the answers are written in your quoted message. I answered all the questions individually.

 

[QUOTE = "Mickeymouse، post: 728410، member: 23202"] لم أمارس الجنس مطلقًا ولو مرة واحدة في حياتي. عمري 24 في الوقت الحالي. وفي ثقافتي نحن عذراء حتى نتزوج. كما أنني أشعر أن حجم بنيس الخاص بي أصبح صغيرًا بالتأكيد. بعد التبول أيضًا ، إنه يتسرب. أشعر وكأنني قد أصبح أسبوعيًا.

لقد طورت أيضًا نوعًا من الفصال العظمي للركبة. فقط في سن ال 24. الأمر ليس بهذا السوء. لكن في مراحل مبكرة حسب اختصاصي العلاج الطبيعي. لقد أفسد هذا العمل المفرط من PMO حياتي. قد يتم القيام بذلك في سن النمو مثل سن 13-14 عامًا ، مما يجعل الجسم ينمو بشكل كامل أو يجعل العظام والعضلات ضعيفة. [/ QUOTE]

هل تخلصت تماما من ادمان الإباحية؟

 

Urinary dribble, also known as post void dribble, is an involuntary loss of urine immediately after urination affecting anywhere from five to 58 percent of men.
So that is normal. PMO doesn't affect your penis size, too.
It can make you restless and depressed and you can have ED from overstimulation, but it's not affecting the body, rather the mind.
Because what you find sexual arousing is defined in the brain and not in the penis..
Maybe you have health anxiety/OCD.

 

I found this out the hard way. Day 90 and I’m feeling worse than when I started. But yeah, apparently some guys need much longer.. 6 months, even a year or more. It’s a daunting prospect but it seems reasonable given how long I’ve been watching porn, if we assume that it’s actually severely altered my neurochemistry in some deleterious way.

 

How do you measure 'feeling worse' than when started?
What do you need to feel to say "my brain is cured"?

 

I had little irl sex experience and 13 year of pron use (3/week), which is far worse than ppl who do have years of irl sex and less porn use. Im at 90 days, and also haven't fully recovered. however, i go from have high chance of no erection to be able to have below-good sex.

decades of desensitizing and training to have sex with screens might take more than 90 days to recover. as long as im seeing improvement, Im happy.

be optimistic and stay strong buddy. we are all on the same boat.