I want to spare my wife this? She has enough sadness in her life. I have an accountability friend helping and things are ok even though there have been some tough days. I haven’t had complete PIED Until just the last little bit, just weak boner and I often lose it before completion. My wife is upset because I have been sexually aggressive and more interested in my O than in her satisfaction. I have also been a pretty angry person with her and others socially. I also seem to have lost my ability to to resist saying stupid rude inappropriate things to my wife and in public. I have no confidence in my ability to keep it hard. We have had sex three times after day 20(which was the worst day) although with some viagra help. This is more sex than the last three months combined. Does she have to know? And should I be abstaining from sex with her too? Will my social skills improve? I am half afraid to go out of the house.