Damaged penis from PMO

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by snake123, Aug 13, 2014.

  1. snake123

    snake123 New Member

    In addition to PIED, is it possible due to the frequency of masturbation we did due to watching porn everyday (or multiple times), also not only desensitized the penis but also did damage to the veins and nerves, which could be another cause of the weaker and difficulties getting erections? Particularly if you did so in the flaccid and non fully erect state.

    Has this been examined, and what is the likelihood of it.

  2. Ocguy

    Ocguy Member

    i think it's entirely possible, although if u get xrays or scans they probably wont see anything.

    but i've had this convo with mustang just a few days ago. We've both been rebooting for a couple of years and have noticed that each time we relapse our downtime is longer, considerably longer. It' would be odd if this was solely a brain change. But who knows. I'm currently around 120 days after a 20 O binge in two months from dec to jan.

    I have logs back in 2012 and 2013 that shows libido returning after 60 day reboots after 15 O binges. .So something is wrong.

    And the way libido literally CRASHES after the last O. it's not like I get any type of warning. It just crashes and dick goes dead and numb, like something gives out.
  3. persevearance

    persevearance no amount of pixels will ever love you back

    My penis Doesn't get that hard anymore and for years its been like that it doesn't gorge with blood and fill up like I want it to it fills up but the head is always soft and it just doesn't feel right but once upon a time last year I got aroused by feeling a girls vagina and the thing just blew up like a baloon blood rushing into it like old times and it looked and felt like it should I think it could be our arousal is fucked anyway I'm gonna go see a doc about it and ask him what he thinks.
  4. Mart71

    Mart71 Guest

    I don't know much about these things at all, but I believe this is part of what did happen to me (damage to skin/nerves) and it is part of my desensitizaion problem. Just as an example of the way it feels damaged, in my 20s, being in a vagina or mouth would feel "warm". Today, it does not. And I am pretty sure, my current gf is not an ice-princess.

    I find it hard to believe this would just be caused by getting desensitized in my brain from porn. Doc says I am fine, of course. Healthy 40 y.o. "young man".
  5. I definitely feel like my penis got wrinkles from all the excessive tugging and stretching.
  6. SheldonCooper

    SheldonCooper New Member

    The penile desensitization caused by circumcision should outweigh anything you can do by just rubbing the thing.

    The porn problem happens in the brain itself.
  7. Roaring Tide

    Roaring Tide New Member

    That hasn't been my experience. While much of the damage was done to my brain, not all of it was. A reasonable amount of damage was done locally too.

    With the general overuse combined with the death grip, it causes the nerves to habituate, which becomes the lack of feeling/sensation. I'm pretty confident that a decent amount of resensitisation will take place over time, although it probably won't be 100% again, but it doesn't need to be.
  8. Ocguy

    Ocguy Member

    The debate on brain vs nerves is quite interesting.

    I'm beginning to feel- just gut instinct. There is a feedback loop going on. If the nerves or tissue is desensitized from over use, it sends signal to brain not to get very excited - or the signal is weak, and then everything (the whole process ) down regulates..
  9. Ocguy

    Ocguy Member

    I don't even think you need a death grip to do damage, although i'm sure it doesn't help.. But Just that orgasm intensity you feel can cause desensitization if we do it multiple times a day with no breaks.

    Of course once the damage starts the threshold of what we can handle becomes less, especially if we don't respect our limits. I can't even do it more then once every 20 days right now or I feel like I'm putting to much load on my system.
  10. Twilightning

    Twilightning New Member

    I personally think the pleasure resonse is aligned with the limbic system and as nothing to do with penis nerves.Heres my proof.I got the worst case of porn induced brain changes.Then i waited 14 months and then i started masturbating to internet porn.Then i got aroused and could feel something from the stimulation.After clicking several tubes and pictures i got really ecited and got a powerful orgasm.I continued masturbating to porn several times a day for the net three wees with very little exciment and weak orgasms and then bam.When I tried masturbating after this period i felt nothing and couldnt orgasm.What really suprised me is that when i tried masturbating i couldnt get aroused by tv porn or just from selfstimulation, just from internet porn.
  11. Iamnobodi

    Iamnobodi New Member

    Simple solution, stop PMO. Penis heals. Time heals all wounds.
  12. UpendiT

    UpendiT Member

    What if you lost all of your limbs?
  13. ls558

    ls558 Member

    Ask a salamander.

    The funny part here is that the original poster is a "snake". Already got no limbs!
  14. coolmusti

    coolmusti Go hard or go home

    Did you damage the dorsal nerve? That can happen when you jelqing or wank to had. The dorsal nerve is the nerve responsible for penile sensation which leads to the build of orgasm, it controls the ejaculation reflex. Dorsal nerve is part of the pudental nerve which is connected to the spinal cord, responsible for sensitivity, orgasm and erections. In other words damage to this can cause perment damage. Men who've had their prostate removed can't get erection because the nerves which control erections, the cavernous nerve are severed. Dorsal nerve also innervates the pelvic muscles responsible for the rhythmic contraction during orgasm.
  15. Overlord

    Overlord Guest

    the damage is only temporary you must abstain for masturbation and you will regain sensivity on the penis
  16. leonscottkennedy

    leonscottkennedy New Member

    In my case the sensitivity and the erections are there, but I'm really hoping the purple marks on my penis that were caused by the "death grip" will heal eventually.. Been using oils on it for 2 weeks+ but so far no change.
  17. Overlord

    Overlord Guest

    are you using man1 man oil ?
  18. Ocguy

    Ocguy Member

    So if you search for Dorsal nerve and chronic masturbation. You will see lots of conversations on forums etc talking about this. I dont think there has to be pain in order to do the damage. And I don't think u need to tweak the penis.

    Damage can occur just from constant rubbing, Penis's weren't designed to be stimulated 3 times a day for 7 to 10 years. U notice this is about the same time almost everybody seems to break down? Porn does this cuz normally you would stop after 1 time or so.

    And it doesn't have to be dorsal nerve per se' there are lots of tissues and nerves, it could be any one factor.

    All i can say is from personal experience , now that I've entered a new phase of damage is that things get worse if u keep pushing it. Much worse. I was on a steady track of healing.. Almost rock solid after a 5 days resbit. Now i'm 5 months into this new reboot and still have yet to get back to that level. All from a 20 O binge in 40 days or so. After 5 months I feel like i'm close to were i was, sensitivity wise and libido. But still far far away from full healing. The hard reboot is the way to go.

    I'm also realizing that MW and nite wood is probably slowing things down a bit. I don't want any stimulation down there for as long as I can go. The part that keeps us from healing is libido is not necessarily perfectly insync with the nerve or tissue healing, libido can come roaring back before the nerves are fully healed, this is why you can get easy erection from slight touch, but still lack rock hardness. In my opinion, this leaves a huge risk of relapsing and going further backward.
  19. leonscottkennedy

    leonscottkennedy New Member

    No, i've been alternating between coconut oil and cocoa butter. Is man1 man worth it?
  20. rebooting

    rebooting Member

    I've stopped using the death grip for 83 days. Since I stopped, I did the death grip cure (1st week abstinence, 2nd week 1x fleshlight, 3rd and 4th week 2x fleshlight). Since then, I never masturbated again. Last month I started using Man 1 Man oil on a daily basis. My penis has become more sensitive, but not sensitive enough to orgasm in a girl. I got laid today. I felt a stingy feeling in my dick during intercourse. Last time I had intercourse, 60 days ago, my dick was totally numb. Now it's more sensitive, but not sensitive enough to have a good feeling during intercourse and not sensitive enough to orgasm.

    I abstained from M for 55 days and nearly three months from PMO, but my dick isn't working properly. Maybe I need to get more used to fucking. My dick may be too wired to the death grip.

Share This Page