Considering an escort? Don't, here is why.

I visited one last month but not for sex just to see if my junk still works. To my surprise, it does but also, i left feeling worse than I got there.

An escort isn't helpful at all for the most part. Most get addicted to escort sites and/or escorts themselves.

This is a short article explaining the damage a man causes himself by doing this. This is why dignity is very important.

http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/why-real-men-dont-have-to-pay-for-it/

 

Damn right.

 

Terrible article.

I don't have any experience with escorts but the only reason I can see why you shouldn't use one is because it could make you complacent.
Unless paying for sex is against your morals, then you obviously shouldn't do it.

 

I love articles/saying that use the term,"real man"
can I still hire a cleaning lady once a week? or do "real men" clean their own homes"
can I be ok if I drink water or do "real men" drink only beer"
can I not smoke? or do "real men" smoke?
yeah, chasing after someone elses thoughts about a "real man" is absurd. do what makes you happy, in the short and long term.

 

I agree with the idea that real men don't pay for sex. The article was terribly written though, and at the end she just completely murdered her own argument by mentioning that real men have one night stands. I have to disagree with that. One night stands are irresponsible and reckless.

 

@IS588, go out tonight and see how difficult it is to get a one night stand. Try doing it sober. It requires men to approach a woman channel her attraction and make her compliant. So, a one night stand takes more skill than hiring an escort, lol.


@Newnes, we as men have to get in touch with our deeper selves, you are right about that. Forget the past, lets move forward in being the men that far exceeds that of women.

 

he seems to be saying there is more to being a man than dealing with females.
if a man got all the woman chasing after him, yet he was poor, unaccomplished, weak/out of shape 400lbs guy, would you really want to be him?

 

LOL
real men are constantly paying for sex
I give blood and Im always asked, "did you pay for sex in hte last year?"
well, yeah, of course I did
I paid to join a dating site
paid for dinner to take a girl out
paid for popcorn
paid for desserts

would I have done any of that without sex as a goal?
no
so did I pay for sex?
yes, look at what I did in terms of math
would a girl have given me sex if she had paid?
no, that's not how society works.so is paying for sex directly "bad"?
No, that's illogical, don't get brainwashed by the "real man" sTUFF
dont think paying for sex is at all like dating. you are having fun and getting your rocks off NOT making friends
then again, how many of your friends are girls you've dateD?

 

You guys missed the point. The article is not about "real men", it's more about a women isn't someone you should just buy. Even escorts feel bad when they are treated as much, that is why they like to establish rules as to how things will go down.

I think a large symptom of constant PMO'ing is that we unconsciously think of women as sex objects. The idea that a women's body shouldn't be for sale is foreign to us because of this sex crazed objectification of women society we live in. Just like how we thought it was okay to watch porn. I have started to disassociate fantasies of sex when I look at women and I am beginning to see things more clearly now.

 

Contrary to popular belief, most men don't go to a prostitute for sexual gratification. They often go because of a lack of intimacy in their lives. They crave for female companionship, which is exactly the opposite of objectification. Of course, there are sex addicts who go for a quicky, but most men go for an emotional need that they seek. That's why men usually become very disappointed with most prostitutes, because they provide cold, careless, mechanical sex. Men want a girlfriend experience. It explains why high class escorts are so expensive.

 

@Newnes, yes you did miss the point by a mile.

Of course there is a difference between a real man and someone who visits prostitutes. Real men are satisfied by the effort required to get the prize the latter group is looking for a fast fix. Real men work hard to get to where they wanna be or who they wanna be with, the latter group just pays for it. Clearly there is a difference and it does you no goooood at all by claiming there is no difference between the two groups. Porn has made you lose touch of simple matters like this. It was only last week I discovered this myself, so I uncovered the whool from underneath my eyes and sharing this with you so you can do the same.

@rebooting, you are right on the money for sure. The type of intimacy they want is not gonna do the job in an hour. Intimacy feels a lot better when you worked for it than payed for it.

 

in most cases, yes you can
have a guy not pay, is he going to get sex?

doubtful

but I am not saying you can buy a relationship, commitment, friends,, just sex
if you want sex, go buy sex
if you want everything else, then you have to date

buying a hooker will get you sex, maybe stds, beaten up, robbed, killed(depending how you do it) but it is very unlikely to get you something you'd want, other than sex

 

get off the "real men" ride.
hookers(paying for sex) have been around in our culture, other cultures and even animal cultures

People do different things for different reasons, there is nothing wrong with paying for sex, just make sure it won't hinder you to reaching your final goal.

 

This isn't about skill, it's about goals. If your goal is a one night stand, then what are you really aiming for in life? Temporary satisfaction, just like jacking off to pixels. Maybe I'm naive, but I think a person who has healed from a porn habit would have a different goal in mind... for instance, having sex regularly with the same partner(s).

 

I don't see the difference between paying for sex and sleeping with strangers for free. It causes pretty much the same damage in the end.

 

@fathomer, I cant believe you stooped so low as to intentionally display trigger images. Everything you say from this point on is ignorance and proof against you. Your arguments aren't even being considered by me anymore. Go to another thread.