Cialis

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by Mojo11, Aug 26, 2020.

  1. Mojo11

    Mojo11 Member

    Just wondering if anyone has used cialis to kick start requiring.

    I’m abstaining from porn

    I’ve met a really nice girl but my noodle isn’t reacting to her. I think she is super cool and nice but my heart starts going and nothing happens down there. I’m gutted about it

    I was hoping taking cialis for a month whilst dating her I hope I could break the negative cycle of thinking about sex.

    I think I’ve Rewired my brain to be scared/worried about sex and failing.

    I read some horrible stories of flat lines after orgasms which worries me even more

    I test my erection on my own today and could get erect to touching and light imagination about her.

    don’t know what to do for the best with it all.

    what route would people take in my situation ?

    I’ve told her how I am with sex and she’s very understanding

    the problem is if I fail it brings back my depression which is awful.

    thanks for reading
     
  2. Mojo11

    Mojo11 Member

    Just wondering if anyone has used cialis to kick start requiring.

    I’m abstaining from porn

    I’ve met a really nice girl but my noodle isn’t reacting to her. I think she is super cool and nice but my heart starts going and nothing happens down there. I’m gutted about it

    I was hoping taking cialis for a month whilst dating her I hope I could break the negative cycle of thinking about sex.

    I think I’ve Rewired my brain to be scared/worried about sex and failing.

    I read some horrible stories of flat lines after orgasms which worries me even more

    I tested my erection on my own today and could get erect to touching and light imagination about her. Which I hope is a good sign

    don’t know what to do for the best with it all.

    what route would people take in my situation ?

    I’ve told her how I am with sex and she’s very understanding

    the problem is if I fail it brings back my depression which is awful.

    thanks for reading
     
  3. PhoenixSun

    PhoenixSun New Member

    Are you on anti-depressants? That will definitely have a negative effect on your erection. I am using Cialis and it works well You have to take it about 3 to 4 hours in advance. But it is long lasting. I always wake up hard and can give her sex in the morning. I just can't get off due to my delayed Ejaculation issues.
     
  4. BackOnTrack

    BackOnTrack Member

    For me I can aknowledge that I have performance anxiety with new girls. Afraid not to get it up and this is actually the reason why it becomes difficult.
    However once it worked out the problem is gone, therefore it is obviously psychologically.
    What helps me is extended foreplay like 69 and also missionary freaks me out, because she is looking at me while I try to get going.
    So better if she is lying flat on her stomach and not starring at me. :D
    Also helps to take her hand and and put it on your D when your struggling.
    I hope that wasnt too graphic. I've never used Cialis.
     
  5. PhoenixSun

    PhoenixSun New Member

    BackOnTrack, I can relate to the performance anxiety also. I met this new girlfriend back in March and she is rally attractive. Probably the most sexual and hottest girl I have ever been with. I had quite a bit of trouble getting hard on our first sexual get together. I did eventually get hard, but it wasn't normal. I had not dated in 3 years after my last relationship. It's really what started me on this journey. I immediately trashed and got rid of all my porn and cleaned out my social media. It was really a wakeup call. Also quit masturbating when I was alone. I only have sex with her now. I still have to masturbate to get to the emission phase then slide in her for orgasm. Hoping things get better. A lot of my issues are psychological as well. Bad marriages and relationships take a toll on you. There is so much drama. If there is a problem in your relationship it will drag you down sexually. I recently discovered that the new girl has a secret drinking problem. I find empty bottles in her closet. It's very emotionally draining because she is absolutely stellar in the bedroom, she is also the perfect person for me personalty wise. She has a bit of a shady past due to alcohol, so the drinking really bothers me. Not what a guy needs who is trying to get better.
     
  6. PhoenixSun

    PhoenixSun New Member

    My testosterone was actually quite low. It was only 320 on a scale of 300 to 1000 being the normal range. That has helped along with the Cialis and Viagra. The generic versions being Sildenafil and Tadadifil. Getting checked out by a doctor was a good idea for me.
     
  7. BackOnTrack

    BackOnTrack Member

    Sorry to hear that she does have that problem.
    Anyhow that probably not something you can do much about unless she wants it.
    All the best for you.
     
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