'Castle Black' - CLOSED FOREVER. [GROUP - Abandoned]

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by NightsWatch, Jun 11, 2013.

  1. JW86

    JW86 New Member

    Re: We are the Night's Watch. Welcome to 'Castle Black' [GROUP]

    It's a finger applying pressure on the perinium. It's an old yogic technique. Usually painless, I'll add.

    My personal experience is that an orgasm without the ejaculation is less pleasurable, therefore less dopamine spike. I think also I wanted so bad -not- to ruin my streak, it was an extension of wanting to hold it in.

    I had two beers last night. Funnily enough, I only ever get this stinging sensation after ejaculation when I have been drinking alcohol. It's not an uncommon thing, a look on google will confirm.
     
  2. Califree209

    Califree209 Reaching for my goal.

    Re: We are the Night's Watch. Welcome to 'Castle Black' [GROUP]

    Guys I will succeed in no fap july I promise that!
     
  3. kevcox25

    kevcox25 Member

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    alright guys, I've made it to 10 days!
     
  4. NightsWatch

    NightsWatch Member

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    OK Kevcox. Are you doing NoFap July?
     
  5. darkwolf

    darkwolf New Member

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    During your reboot has anyone been surprised at how your attraction to women has expanded?

    There's a certain silver-haired lady in my office building and even though I never had a GILF (haha) thing going on there's just something about her. It's true I'm older than I once was too, but still, I wonder if during my PMO era I would have given her a second look. Not saying that's a preference as it's still the young fillies who most make me look at 'em but I wonder how the lack of M causes us to perceive attraction.
     
  6. NightsWatch

    NightsWatch Member

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    Welcome to the Black Kevcox and help the Watch have the most members to kick No Fap July's ass!
     
  7. kevcox25

    kevcox25 Member

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    I'm trying to do no fap summer.
     
  8. NightsWatch

    NightsWatch Member

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    That's makes complete sense to practice now because we all know winter is coming.
     
  9. kevcox25

    kevcox25 Member

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    is going somewhere and listening to music a good cut off when it comes to urges. I need to find something that can redirect my thoughts when they try to take over.
     
  10. aussie sam

    aussie sam New Member

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    Hi Kev!

    Firstly, welcome to The Night's Watch and congratulations on making it to the 10 day mark!

    Everyone is different but 2 things that I would strongly suggest doing when you feel tempted are..

    A) Do something active (preferably out of the house) go for a walk or run if you feel tempted
    B) Be around other people. Go visit some friends or something.

    These are the best ways that I have found so far!

    Winter is coming indeed!
     
  11. rohan

    rohan Member

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    You are welcome kevcox. Wish you the best. We will overcome this addiction all together. I'm sure!
    Sorry for my long abstinence, but I had a personal let down 2 weeks ago and was a bit pissed, but now I am feeling better.
    I'm happy that most of us don't really let that their guard down.

    @JW
    I had the feeling, that you were a bit down the last days because of MO. Man, don't be harsh on yourself. Porn is the real harmful one. If you don't masturbate excessively, you won't fuck your reboot up. So cheer up, mate. :)

    @darkwolf
    Definitely! 2 days ago I've got a reaction down in my pants only looking at a girls butt without thinking about anything. (I know I'm a pervert! :p) Damn you summer!

    @Cali
    Wish you much success for NoFAP July! Go, kick some ass. I know you can do it. :)

    Today I watched another episode of "The Wire" and there were some nude scenes in it. Put my hand in front of the screen to block the scenes. haha
     
  12. JW86

    JW86 New Member

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    God, The Wire. Trigger central, some of the women on that show! shiy-eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet. 8)

    Rohan thanks for the message.. I MO'd 4 times in 24 hours, but no PMO.. Yeah I've been feeling down. Heavily brain foggy too. I am torn to pieces over my current relationship. She comes back end of August. Thanks for checking in with me. You are at 47 days, that's really good! Two more days and you'll break my record! :p
     
  13. darkwolf

    darkwolf New Member

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    Count me in at #3 as someone who felt urges looking at the WIRE women. Not gonna say who. I'm pleased that so far during my reboot I've managed to not get seriously triggered by any of these types of things. Hope it continues being that way.
     
  14. kevcox25

    kevcox25 Member

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    Yea I've managed to stay off of porn. Masturbation with those thoughts are now my problem. I have not urge to look at shit anymore online, but my masturbation is an addiction in its own. I can't reboot without going on a long streak without it.
     
  15. NightsWatch

    NightsWatch Member

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    Happy 4th everyone! American or not, go celebrate and drink something.
     
  16. kevcox25

    kevcox25 Member

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    So how is everyone doing?
     
  17. Califree209

    Califree209 Reaching for my goal.

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    Guys how do you survive the day when you the urges are just super? I'm trying everything and I still cant get to even 2 weeks.
     
  18. NightsWatch

    NightsWatch Member

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    There's a barrier you have to break through where you make it a habit not to connect fantasies with masturbation. When I see any triggers, anything at all, the first thought in my mind isn't to touch myself anymore. I use to have my hand on my crotch the moment I sat down at a computer just browsing the internet. The moment I catch myself trying to touch my own d*** I pull my hand away, and if my hand was there for a few seconds I use that hand and slap myself across the face.

    For me, abstaining from Masturbation is the main key for my recovery. Honestly, looking at that number down below in my signature is always a good reminder of how many years of relationships porn took from my life. I'm closing in on 40 days right now, when in reality I should be 2,940 days. But here's the secret, it all starts with DAY ONE. A prost to all those who can just quit something or start something, but for me I must prepare myself mentally and hope I don't burn out. I was having trouble after relapsing many months ago. I felt guilty. I stopped coming to this site and found myself jerking off to porn at least once a day. Crazy how I was still watching porn but just from the short time of trying to abstain from it, I knew how poisonous just a few sessions could be. Oh and don't forget the chaser effect which is probably why you have such a hard to abstaining.

    I'm glad you keep coming back to the forums after relapse. Keep doing that. One day when you realize you've had enough, your mind will just click and you won't ever want to do it again. Want to know one reason why I'm here? Because when you get the chance to hookup with a beautiful woman and you can't even get your wang up, the excuses of 'alcohol' start to destroy you. Reality sets it. You're the biggest fucking loser you never meant to be. Time to be the hero, time to take the black, time to be a member of the Nights Watch and tell yourself you're fucking better than boarding yourself up in some room and touching yourself to pixels on a screen.
     
  19. Califree209

    Califree209 Reaching for my goal.

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    Thank you man that was great inspiration. I will try all that instead of slapping myself haha maybe i'll pinch myself or something. And i'll try to actually take it day by day this time and look at the future if the urges get strong again. I'm also going to turn my safari off for a long time and just have the k9 app for this site and a couple other things.
     
  20. kevcox25

    kevcox25 Member

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    I just put my computer away when I try to sleep. I'm also trying sleep aids to make me pass out. My habit was masturbating to get to sleep before. If I can break that barrier then everything else seems a little easier. 95% of my relapses are in my bed when I can't go to sleep or I don't have anything planned for the next day. Now I m trying a sleep pattern and have things to wake up for even on my off days. I haven't masturbated to porn in over 2 weeks and the last time I masturbated is going on a week. You gotta find where the habit originated and how to contain it at the source. I found that to be my source, and this is closing in on my longest streak.
     

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