Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by bright_eyes, Feb 6, 2013.
That's a great post bright_eyes. Hallelujah to that.
That anti-porn site is amazing. It's obviously a very grim business.
Everything comes in threes.
Thanks for the warning. I'll wait till my food is well digested. Reading about the real deal is helpful, though depressing.
I'm not sure what motivated me, but I spent a bunch more time on my new discovery, the antipornography.org website.
A young lady named Jennie Ketchum has quite a bit of content there. I found it fascinating how much the things she says match the things we say here. Have a look. I think you'll find it interesting. And it's a good news story as opposed to the utterly depressing stuff I have been linking to.
An impressive young lady named Jennie Ketchum writes about porn, addiction, and life...
I've been impressed by what I've read there. Jennie Ketchum comes across as a very honest person.
28 days no M. Not too shabby. I can beat it, though. It starts with my hyper awareness that M leads to more M.
I can report that almost immediately after M'ing, my balls started hurting like a sonofabitch. That's after 28 days with no testicular discomfort whatsoever. One more reason not to M...
337 days with no orgasm, no ejaculation and no discomfort. No masturbation works.
Bright eyes, congratulations on 300 days, what a feat. I'll watch your journal with interest for the next few days to learn how you deal with chaser following M. Please do post your observations if you have any for the benefit of rest of us.
It's not a problem. There are different kinds of M.
For me, solo M involving porn lite (pics of barely clothed women) has a high probability of repeating. This M was, strange though it might sound, togetherness M, just me and my partner being together such as we can be (telephone) while living on opposite coasts. At this point in my journey, this kind of M has a low probability of repeating (for quite some time).
Better to not M, I guess, but sometimes my partner and I get a little bit crazy. I quite like that aspect of her. Note that I am exerting all possible efforts to end this scenario of living on opposite coasts.
hey bright, missed your 300. sorry. How could I since I know we are so close together on this
No worries, imout. It's like you said: We're dealing with the real shit now that we're clean. Onward!
Hey bright_eyes, just saw that you've passed 300 days without porn - respect to you. I like that Nazareth track you posted there too, not heard of them before.
Congrats on 300!...a few days late. I'm glad things are going well. Thanks for posting the Haim videos.
This young woman strips down to her undergarments while speaking. I did not find it titillating. Ditto for when she demonstrates belly dancing (her terminology).
Inflammatory (to this audience) Content:
The entire 20-minute video is a speech about why pornography addiction is not really an addiction. She even calls out yourbrainonporn.com by name.
This young woman has wisely chosen a particular genre of porn as her speciality. In this genre, the women do not have to get used as multi-hole receptacles. Rather, the women get to use the men, typically over a remote Internet connection. (The men like it.)
I must confess that I do not understand this young woman's motivation for posting this video. The genre in which she participates depends on guys being very sick in the head, so it is certainly in her interest to convince these guys that they are not sick in the head.
(No offense intended to fans of this genre. I was very sick in the head in my own way for my own favorite genres.)
are you talking about submissive stuff as the genre. Sorry Bright, I cant be bothered watching the vid. But Id like to follow your drift of your post
I understand her motivation. She's trying to protect her racket.
CRAP! Had a total and epic meltdown last night and PMO'd via some stupid Cinemax movie! Crap! Crap! Crap! Oh well, we reset the counter and get after it!
That 60 day thing must be real! Angry - now it's time to pick self up and start over. Really pissed at myself.
Was home alone - plans fell through - felt lonely and failed. The divorce adjustment is going to be more difficult than anticipated - especially on weekends.
Hey Bright! Well, I will not even tamper with watching whatever video is mentioned here right now. I will comment on how crazy it is that people simple just do not "get it." I would also bet that she or whomever it is, has not sat and read through and/or watched the videos on YBOP. Wow... amazing!
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