Brand New Life

Discussion in 'Ages 25-29' started by Wise Hermit, Oct 19, 2019.

  1. Wise Hermit

    Wise Hermit Member

    Day 20 / Day zero

    A trap happened. But I keep moving
     
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  2. Thelongwayhome27

    Thelongwayhome27 Well-Known Member

    I think almost three weeks is really a good job, especially in "lock down conditions". I'm sure the 20 days are not in vein and will help you out in your future efforts.

    Did the lapse come suddenly on day 20, or did it come gradually in the last few days ?
     
  3. Wise Hermit

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    Saw very sexy scene in tv series and was thinking about it since yesterday. Drove myself to the point where I didn't want to calm down
     
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  4. Battlesword1

    Battlesword1 Active Member

    That's tough man, especially if you don't know the scene is going to happen. But get back on the good grind and you'll be okay!
     
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  5. Wise Hermit

    Wise Hermit Member

    Day zero

    Let's start again
     
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  6. Wise Hermit

    Wise Hermit Member

    Day zero again
     
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  7. Wise Hermit

    Wise Hermit Member

    Alright I'm back

    25 days in. Keeping moving
     
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  8. Wise Hermit

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    Over. Gonna do better
     
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  9. Wise Hermit

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    Day 16
    It's been good
     
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  10. Wise Hermit

    Wise Hermit Member

    24 Days
    Everything's been amazing. No urges. Went on a wonderful trip with my friends. Asked out on a date a cute girl to which she said yes.
    It's getting better and I'm really thankful
     
  11. -Luke-

    -Luke- Well-Known Member

    Great news man! Good luck with the date.
     
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  12. Battlesword1

    Battlesword1 Active Member

    I love hearing this Hermit! Best of luck with the date, good to see you on Day 33 too!
     
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  13. Wise Hermit

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    After 4o days its day zero.
    Keeping going forward
     
  14. positivef

    positivef Active Member

    Good that you are jumping straight back on the horse. Did you start working on that personal problem?
     
  15. Wise Hermit

    Wise Hermit Member

    Starting again
     
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  16. Stay strong, friend! Remember not to think of relapsing as "starting over", but instead to look at the overall trend of your PMO frequency. Every day that you don't PMO counts as progress towards not needing it in your life anymore, and relapsing doesn't erase that progress.

    In the fight against porn addiction, the forest is far more important than any one of the trees.
     
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  17. Wise Hermit

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    I'm starting again
     
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  18. positivef

    positivef Active Member

    You can do it! Do you know what leads you relapsing?
     
  19. positivef

    positivef Active Member

    Okay, so going deeper want causes you to search for porn, or at what times are you likely to do this?
     
  20. positivef

    positivef Active Member

    Sometimes craving for dopamine is associated with getting relief from certain feelings; for example stress or boredom.
     
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