Brand New Life

Discussion in 'Ages 25-29' started by Wise Hermit, Oct 19, 2019.

  1. Wise Hermit

    Wise Hermit Member

    Here we go.
     
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  2. Rengaw

    Rengaw Will log on every other week from 13/10/2016

    Hi there Wise Hermit,


    Welcome to the forums. Battling a (porn) addiction is something everybody does on his or her own terms. I hope you find tools for your solutions, and as one of the tools that has been shared here many times I suggest you pick up a copy of the Easypeasy hackbook - it has helped me greatly to smoothen out of the negatives of an addiction.

    Take care and if you need any help, there's always good people on these forums.


    Rengaw.
     
  3. Wise Hermit

    Wise Hermit Member

    12 days in. Keeping going
     
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  4. Rengaw

    Rengaw Will log on every other week from 13/10/2016

    It's amazing to see you're trying to cripple both your smoking and fapping. If you have a fal back in either of them... don't sweat it!
    Having a setback is part of the game. Day by day you're increasing that confidence. Like you said: You're not impressed anymore, but later on it'll dawn upon you that you're feeling incredible for no significant reason. That's the power of nofap!

    Enjoy your ride!
     
  5. Wise Hermit

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    27 days, good progress
     
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  6. Wise Hermit

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    33 Days was a good streak. But I failed. Let's start again
     
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  7. Wise Hermit

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    Day 15/ Day 0

    Keep on moving
     
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  8. Wise Hermit

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    Day 5 / Day 0

    Let's start over, shall we
     
  9. Wise Hermit

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    Day 11 / Day 0

    I need to start getting more serious about it again
     
  10. Wise Hermit

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    Day zero again. Well
     
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  11. Wise Hermit

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    Day 0
    Difficult but I keep pushing
     
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  12. Rengaw

    Rengaw Will log on every other week from 13/10/2016

    If you'd like to have some insights on stopping smoking I could recommend you Allen Carr - Stop smoking now. His techniques have been transformed into many ways to stop 'using' cigarettes, drugs, food, alcohol. He's a legend.
    How is the quitting going? Maybe.. .maybe take one vice after another. I've stopped drinking alcohol for nearly a year now and I feel truly amazing. Still, porn is an issues. But I now have confidence. I KNOW I am no longer relying in crutches.
     
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  13. Merton

    Merton Well-Known Member

    I agree with this. I read "the easy way to stop smoking" in 2008 after smoking for 10 years and haven't smoked since.
     
  14. Wise Hermit

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    Day 0
    Getting motivated again
     
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  15. Rengaw

    Rengaw Will log on every other week from 13/10/2016

    Good! That's about 6 weeks no cigarettes, well done mate.
    Alcohol is a huge cravings catalyst, for pretty much anything - cigarettes, food, drugs, more alcohol, sex, gambling. It creates more craving and numbs many positives. Primarily because of the latter I stopped drinking. I got depressed for a few days after drinking alcohol. I think because it crushed the last bit of self-love I still had.

    Now, things have been going well. I have been going to regular SLAA meetings and the benefits have been amazing. The meetings are weekly and perhaps more effective for me than seeing my addiction therapist.
     
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  16. Wise Hermit

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    Day 7/ Day 0

    I keep pushing
     
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  17. Rengaw

    Rengaw Will log on every other week from 13/10/2016

    I think alcohol is a more accepted phenomenon but has equally negative effects, in a different way. I truly believe drinking alcohol holds no intrinsic value except for the ones we attach to it - forgetting about our problems and getting into a different energy to enjoy new stories socially.
    Again, the 'bonding' aspect of alcohol are not about the individuals that inhibit alcohol but about the Egos that meet up and leave for a different vibration.

    I think it's worse because drunk people have a higher negative impact than 'porned up'people. I haven't read the first article about porn and driving, with casualties.
     
  18. Wise Hermit

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    Yea, so Day 6, Day 0
    Need to stay mindful
     
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  19. I highly recommend meditation/mindfulness. It'll make you more self-aware which is critical to recovery. Experiment and find what works for you.
     
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  20. Wise Hermit

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    Day zero
    Trying out meditation
     
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