I think that you just have to listen to what your mind and body is telling you and see what is right for you. Have you looked into any 12 step groups in your area? These are excellent for accountability. If there aren't any in the immediate proximity, you can attend telephone and Skype meetings. Also, you don't have to meet someone in person to develop a relationship with them. I have yet to meet my sponsor in the flesh, I was put in contact with him when there were no meetings in my city, and we get on well. You can also put yourself out there as a 'loner' which makes you the point of contact for all other people who don't have access to meetings in your district.