...at least we can joke about it now, what do I know

Discussion in 'Ages 30-39' started by dark red drifter vessel, Sep 8, 2017.

  1. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Uh. Depressive phase ahead. Have been expecting this. Homeground advantage for me. I have lived here many years and know these parts quite well.

    Day 14.
     
  2. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Rage. Blind, aggressive, howling rage. All mine. Can someone order popcorn?

    Day 15
     
  3. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Mood stabilizing. Got a bit of them depri vibes in the past two days, and there'll likely be more, but it's not my first time in these mud pits, so its as likely to influence my course as the weather.

    Much love to not giving a fuck!
     
  4. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Mayor nicotine trigger. Didn't give into it, but boy, that was a hard one. Felt like I haf already lost control.

    When your brain tries to bullshit you into believing you already made the devision to use.

    Bad brain! Off with you to the valley of shame, think about what you did wrong. Insubordination des eigenen Geistes, kein Wunder, dass ich so nicht weit komme.
     
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  5. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Have no better way to express it, but my brain feels a bit like your leg feels when you've sat on it too long.

    Bit like when I had aura before seizures, back in my epileptic heyday.

    At least it's not getting boring. Hah.
     
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  6. positivef

    positivef Active Member

    Could be a sign that your brain is healing?

    Well done for beating the 'decision already made' AKA 'I know I'm going use' frame of mind. That has got me a few times, we need to keep on making good choices.
     
  7. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Yup, these moments are like the addictions a-game, sort of.

    Three weeks today, huh. Onwards.
     
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  8. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Uh. Hard times. Relapsed to MO, and phone sex with the ex. Need to stay away from her. It was super exiting and I felt like shit afterwards. Not sure why.

    Also, unrelatedly, my boyfriend left me. Huh. When you get used to people, they run away, eh?

    Fucks sake.

    At least I haven't picked up smoking again, or drinking. Go me!
     
  9. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Shit. Miss him miss him miss him. Haven't slept. Went on a daytrip with friends. Bit over my limits. All the little lights flash red. Bla.
     
  10. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Mood stabilizing around low expectation/okay with that position.

    Work is still annoyingly structured but helps.

    Sober in regards to alcohol, nicotine and huffing glue for a month now. Some incidents of MO, no porn, apart from some close calls. Bit too much netfkix/youtube binging last week, for my taste.

    Situation generally improved, no need to stop now. I don't think my man will come back to me, but at least the pain of it all is an excellent driver. It's still undecided, I loathe the waiting till he's made up his bloody mind, but I also do not look forward to resolving the issue, as I think he'll do the ditching thing.

    Still not smoking. Something has got to work in all of this. Thats enough for me, to be honest.
     
  11. dark red drifter vessel

    dark red drifter vessel Active Member

    Getting used to the thought of being single again. Mood rather stable. Will need to plan out the weekend, or I am likely to do something stupid.
     
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  12. -Luke-

    -Luke- Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry to hear about the breakup. I hope you guys can somehow fix this. Et kütt wie et kütt, right?
     

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