Anybody addicted to big tits BBW porn?

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by Imfree, Feb 24, 2015.

  1. Imfree

    Imfree Active Member

    The cultural trend to fetishize anorexia only makes me think of poverty, famine, and death. In a way I am rebelling against an attempt by the mainstream media to distort our sexual tastes (for various nefarious purposes), but my taste in porn is taking me too far in the other direction. Most men, and me in particular are naturally attracted to more voluptuous women when you take away the cultural programming. In real life I am now only attracted to chubbier women, although my tastes used to be more varied (although this trend was present before I got into porn). It seems like a nice thing to do, to complement women who have been made to feel bad about themselves. Most of the women I dated wanted to lose weight though which made me feel like I was being just as shallow as everybody else because if they were successful I would be less attracted to them. I want a luxurious body, but it comes at a cost. I am having trouble finding women who I am both attracted to and who I have things in common with. In wanting somebody with limitations in which physical activities they can perform (who may suffer health problems as a result) I feel like I am no better than those who practiced foot binding. Our culture produces a lot of women who I find attractive, so it seems like there are more options available to me, but it comes with a cost of emotional connection. I am ridiculously fit and active. I haven't owned a TV in 14 years. People say that I need an athletic woman that I can go on adventures with, but they leave me totally cold. Women usually put on the pounds while watching TV though and I find TV to be extremely irritating to have in the house, even anxiety producing. The lifestyle I enjoy is being physically or mentally active in every waking moment. Long story short, I wonder if porn has pushed my sexual tastes (in terms of desired partners, not sex acts) to an unhealthy extreme. I negatively judge women who are flat-chested and have hard and angular (manish) bodies without enough concern for who they are as people. I am a bit torn between thinking "that's just my thing, I should express my masculinity" and thinking that I might be missing out on a lot of nice women who would be happy to join me on a hike or something like that. Some porn addicts only want an impossible body type (skinny with fake tits). I like to watch porn with a lot of moving parts. The women that I want are not particularly uncommon, but I have mixed feelings about the personality traits which can come with my physical type. Has porn made me feel unnecessarily guilty about my tastes or has it pushed them too far in one direction?
     
  2. ls558

    ls558 Member

    Yeah, there probably are other people. If there weren't, then you wouldn't have gotten to that category to obsess over it... it exists because there are enough other people who like it.

    Different guys are into different things. I'm not into the same stuff as you, but I've got my tastes too, as does everyone. Mine aren't perfectly conventional either, and I've never been a fan of the stereotypical skinny blonde. I've got pretty varied tastes overall, I can appreciate beauty in all forms. You like what you like, what's important is that your intentions are good.

    A lot of what you say reminds me of myself. I don't watch TV either, people think it's weird for some reason. I can't stand it, I just don't like it. I'm also in the gym a lot, it's just a much better way to spend your time.
     
  3. Imfree

    Imfree Active Member

    Er, the women I am after are not "average" and therefore less common, but they are around and there is less competition from other guys who are worried about what their friends think. I have passed up a lot of women who I had a lot in common with and who others would have said were a good match for me because they were too skinny. One of these women was considered a knockout by my friends. I wonder if I am objectifying women in a different way than most other men and I wonder if porn has contributed to this. Watching ordinary porn is boring. I found it more visually interesting to watch women having sex who's bodies move a lot. I suppose that when I started with this genre I found the taboo aspect appealing as well, like in porn escalation. Alongside BBW porn I have escalated into hard genres which feature skinny "models", but these elements of my porn use were separate. Solo or staight boy/girl BBW porn was a respite from watching hardcore porn and I moved to finishing my sessions with this as finishing to the hard stuff felt too bizarre. Normal women engaged in normal sexual activity became too boring. I had to go to extremes either in the models bodies or in the acts they performed.
     
  4. ls558

    ls558 Member

    I think it's really just your tastes. Just enjoy what you love and stop worrying about why you love it. You'll know what's natural for you to be into the longer you stay away from porn.
     
  5. Imfree

    Imfree Active Member

    Thanks for the advice. You're right, if I continue with no PMO it will probably clear up my confusion. There are rational and positive explanations for why my tastes are the way they are. I have the fastest metabolism out of anybody I have ever met. From an evolutionary perspective it would make sense to balance things out in the next generation. I would be the first to die of starvation in an emergency situation. I have no body fat so I am looking for somebody to snuggle up with when it's cold outside. I need to eat three times as much as the average person and feel like I need a lot of rich food, so it is good to find somebody who shares my love of food. I also associate the extra weight with a propensity to enjoy life and not to deny one's self of pleasure (which also seems to apply in the bedroom).
     
  6. himmelstoss

    himmelstoss Member

    go read a bunch of deranged "fat acceptance" rants and I'm sure your addiction will go away. Being fat is a symptom of being a POS.
     
  7. Rusty

    Rusty Member

    I like fatter women. I can sleep with skinny girls but its more boring. A big chick excites me so much more!

    I've tried to reduce the preference/fetish and its worked a little bit. What I mean by that is, I still like fat women but now I also appreciate slim women. I don't think I can ever learn to dislike fat women but that isn't really an issue.
     
  8. Abstain_or_Die

    Abstain_or_Die New Member

    I try not to think about it. Even reading Big tits BBW porn can get me going if I let it.

    But yeah I agree Big women are great! Not too big though.
     
  9. TREBOR

    TREBOR PMA, not PMO.

    I've surfed most of the genres and I did like to look at big tits and BBW solos. It soon passes though as your brain craves a stronger hit and I quickly found myself looking at BBW hardcore and group sex. I used to really get off watching BBW gangbangs. The thought of it now doesn't do anything for me whatsoever. It was purely the addiction controlling my tastes and the need for a higher high.
     
  10. hodenpetzi15

    hodenpetzi15 New Member

    Well I was also drawn to bigger women since I can remember.

    By the age of 14 I found Hight Speed Porn and than I would escalate to extreme SSBBW, belly stuffing, feedee content.

    It's really difficult for me because my girlfriend, which I deeply love doesn't fit my superficial expectations ...
     
  11. Rusty

    Rusty Member

    Same. The more you don't use porn the more you will appreciate your partner. I don't think your fetish will ever go, nor will mine.
     
  12. Invictus23

    Invictus23 Member

    No but I like the skinny curvy type best, hourglass body, big but proportional boobs, big ass but proportional.


    Heard that hungry men prefer bigger women, no joke.
     

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