any of you guys shemale porn addicts and rewired succesfully with woman?

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by UsernameTaken, Dec 1, 2013.

  1. UsernameTaken

    UsernameTaken New Member

    would really appreciate some input
     
  2. UsernameTaken

    UsernameTaken New Member

    thanks for the input bro. it has definitely been a struggle for me as well. The longest i went was 68 days but i relapsed to shemale porn. I feel different this time because i made this my new years resolution to quit. keep me up to date on your progress because you sound exactly like me situation wise. good luck man
     
  3. flamingwind

    flamingwind Guest

    Well in my case, shemale porn only works when I'm bored of watching typical stuff. I never watched or think about it otherwise and I have been watching it for 5 years. I don't relapse to shemale porn either, I have to build towards it.
     
  4. sidney1990

    sidney1990 Guest

    Im addicted to this stuff....gonna go for a full fledged 6 months of forgetting about it..and have sex after 3 months
     
  5. newday323

    newday323 Member

    Underdog has said before that the attraction to shemales doesn't go away, but the compulsion to act on this attraction does. I couldn't agree more.

    I was heavy into shemale content a few years ago. I moved into a place with no internet and as a result, viewed no P for a while. During that time, I got in a great relationship with a girl and had good sex on a regular basis. I had rewired without even knowing I had an addiction at the time. Unfortunately, I moved into anther place with internet, had more time on my hands, etc and fell back into it...and once again started getting ED with girls and fantasies about shemales. Now I'm back in the rebooting process.

    Btw, I don't think there's anything wrong with being attracted to trans-girls -- it's only problematic if it's an artificial attraction triggered by porn that messes with your capacity to be intimate.
     
  6. Survivor

    Survivor New Member

    A little update on my progress.

    That's me hit the 40 day mark no PMO. This is the longest time I've went with no O of any sort, although I did have a spell of no PMO for about 2.5 months in the summer 2013. As far as relapsing goes, I've had 2 serious episodes of cravings in which I've thankfully managed to stay strong. In one of these though, I do look at a little shemale porn (just pictures) but I got myself together and closed it down. One good thing I can say about that particular experience (2 days ago) is that I didn't feel the insatiable urge to masturbate when looking at it, which in the past I would have had. Not counting it as a relapse.

    As far as progress goes in terms of libido, I've not had any major signs of progress although I've started to get infrequent Morning Wood again. I have been feeling a little down over the last weeks, had plenty of opportunities with girls but know that there's no point in going down that road at the moment as I'm fairly confident I won't be able to get an erection. In the past I've rebooted quicker but that was after a long period of no Shemale porn and my most recent relapse to that particular vice was only 40 days ago.

    I guess I'll need to be patient and wait for the results. Fingers crossed!
     
  7. superduper

    superduper break the chains of porn

    Theres a very natural reason why we watch shemale porn, it's because seeing a penis is visually stimulating even if you are straight. Seeing a penis engages our mind to think about our own penis. That's why you see the penis size or type being an issue or point of interest even in straight porn.

    There is also the novelty aspect too, its shocking so its more stimulating.

    Enjoying shemale porn doesn't take away any enjoyment of women, I don't believe. Maybe over many years of watching it exclusively. I remember I used to get worried I would only enjoy shemales after awhile so I always tried to balance my porn usage with straight porn.

    I am still totally straight and have sex with women even though I was into shemale porn.
     
  8. ryan67

    ryan67 New Member

    I agree with it all. I have been in a position where I watched almost 100% tranny porn and the first time I was in bed with my ex ts gf I could not get it up at all. For me it was about learning to be intimate and breaking the over stimulation of porn. Eventually we started to have sex and as I grew more confident so did my erection.
     

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