Another one for women, size vs performance..

Discussion in 'Women' started by Jaxon, Feb 4, 2014.

  1. Bibbity

    Bibbity Wife of a recovered addict. 3 yrs strong.

    Just to play devil's advocate. If you got your weiner messed up from too much porn isn't that "your stupid fault" rather than a medical condition?
     
  2. Success4Sure

    Success4Sure Guest

    This thread might help cuz I have developed a complex about my size because of P. With all the respect I got for you, what's the minimum you would like, ladies?
     
  3. mevsp

    mevsp Guest

    this is one topic I've never EVER understood. I don't get why guys are so concerned with the size of their penis. IT DOESN'T MATTER!!!!!

    I have a pretty big and thick dick. I don't want to brag about it but it is true. compared to many dicks I've seen in P movies, mine doesn't look much smaller than the average gigantic monsters that most of those guys have.

    and you know what... not EVER has the size of my dick helped me in keeping a lady. not even once!! some girls dated a couple of times extra with me because they loved my penis but still after maybe ten dates they lost interest.

    it was my weak behavior, my weak state of mind, my completely P infected brain, my insecurity, my low self esteem that chased them away.

    women are not as superficial as us men. I mean they are in other ways VERY superficial but not when it comes to penis size.

    you can be a famous dj, or a popular alpha dude and have a very small penis. that small penis has wayyy more value to her than that of a pussy wimpy guy with a large cock.

    just saying...
     
  4. Success4Sure

    Success4Sure Guest

    Thank you very much.
     
  5. Mart71

    Mart71 Guest

    Penis sizes.....

    It matters. It doesn't matter. These absolutes assume, all girls are more or less the same in the way they feel about the issue and are all "built" the same way. Follow up question: do women need big breasts?
     
  6. Do you live in the states or elsewhere? I thought birth control was covered under Obamacare. Even if viagra was, I would be too afraid to go try and get it, since I'm still in my 20's and under my parents' health care.

    And Metal, leave your judgments out of this. State-sponsored birth control is what will keep us from having out of control population growth, otherwise we'll end up like India and China. It's not women living in industrialized nations who make one or two mistakes you have to worry about, it's women from less developed regions coming over here who have been brought up believing that it's ok to have 5 or more children despite their lack of education and income.
     
  7. I reckon it's still easier being a woman with small breasts than it is being a man with a small penis.
     
  8. Bibbity

    Bibbity Wife of a recovered addict. 3 yrs strong.

    Considering breast augmentation is the number one plastic surgery procedure I would say no. How many billboards get thrown in your face with men with huge penis's? How many adverts show a big penis as being central to a womans desires? none. Big breasts are in your face everywhere you go. If having small boobs was desirable then every single model would just keep their tiny boobs rather than get plastic surgery. You can't have very little body fat and still have boobs so the vast majority of boobs you SEE are fake. Women are in a conundrum because society tells them to be uber thin but also have big butt, big boobs. It's insane.
     
  9. You don't think us guys have to deal with that too the way they show all those athletes and Calvin Klein models?
     
  10. Metal

    Metal Get busy living or get busy dying

    Thats ironic isn't it! You telling em to leave my judgment out then you begin to lay blame on immigrants when we know that is a load of shit. Easier to blame other foriegn countries than look at yourselves.

    In the uk it's mostly British who are breeding like vermin, and I'm sure there is a large percentage of home born trailer trash in the states who breed like rabid dogs.

    The bottom line is its not the governments responsibly to nanny the nation. People have to take responsibility for themselves, as that is what gives us freedom of choice whether right or wrong providing it's not contravening any laws.

    Should the government interfere and tell people how many drinks they are allowed to consume regardless if they're driving or not due to increased violence and anti social behavior it causes?
     
  11. Uhh, I don't know about your country but whites are on the way to becoming a minority in the states by 2050. So even if you account for all the 'trailer trash' breeding like 'vermin' our birth rates are still rather low compared to other ethnic groups/races. My point is that all people need to be educated about both sex and birth control and both education and birth control need to be easily accessible.
     
  12. Bibbity

    Bibbity Wife of a recovered addict. 3 yrs strong.

    No the comparison is not the same. Take a look at your newsstand. How many male CK models are there compared to female models on covers. The beauty industry is a multi-billion dollar industry marketed to women to make them feel inadequate. The more inadequate a woman feels the more products she will buy.

    Boys/men have to live up to being macho. For men it's all about power/control. Being sex machines is a HUGE marketing area for guys. Every single show, advert etc. aimed at men reduces men to mere salivated erections waiting to get laid. The more inadequate a man feels the more products he will buy. The cool car, the perfect razor, the cologne. It will all lead to getting laid and therefore a perfect life.

    Unfortunately it's all a lie. Women are much more than their beauty and men are much more than their penis's.
     
  13. Metal

    Metal Get busy living or get busy dying

    Come on now, you've guys even got a tv series on unexpected pregnancies called 16 and pregnant on mtv. Its so bad you got queues of teenagers trying to get pregnant just to get on the show, and I didnt see any Indian or Chinese babies on there.

    Its a bit of a cop out and xenophobic to blame the situation on foreigners
     
  14. Lol, just because we have a TV show about teen pregnancy doesn't mean it's the norm. Considering whites have among the lowest birth rates in the US shows it's not our teen pregnancy you have to worry about. If you wanna talk about teen pregnancy though, that along with single motherhood is actually pretty common among blacks and latino's. I'm not trying to be xenophobic, I could care less if whites become the minority in the US. I just support population control by means of accessible education and birth control.
     
  15. TheUnderdog

    TheUnderdog Active Member Staff Member

    When it comes to sex, there are many things that are much more important than penis size.

    Here is a list of things that are more important than penis size:

    - Sexual attraction between partners.
    - Trust and emotional connection.
    - Enthusiasm, a good and healthy attitude towards sex, being free of insecurities.
    - Foreplay, taking your time, not rushing things.
    - Immersion, going with the flow, letting yourself go.
    - Personal hygiene.
    - Erection quality (much more important than penis size).
    - Ability to last long.
    - Technique (oral sex, positions, rythm).

    I could go on and on.

    If a couple is unsatisfied with their sex life, the vast majority of the time it has to do with one or more of the things I listed above, and not with penis size.
     
  16. Jaxon

    Jaxon New Member

    Birth control and what have you, jeez.

    Thank you underdog for your two cents.
     
  17. Metal

    Metal Get busy living or get busy dying

    So now you're turning on blacks and latinos? what has single motherhood got to do with this? Just because they are a single mother doesn't mean the pregnancy was unwanted. The couple could have planned for a baby and then later there was a divorce or the father was just simply a deadbeat.

    What that has to with race/nationality I don't know, it just serves as another excuse to broadcast your racist bigoted views. You sound like some white supremest, who is wanting to point the finger at every minority to lay the blame for every problem in your country.

    I guess we're porn addicts and getting ed because of these minorities as well right?
     
  18. Bibbity

    Bibbity Wife of a recovered addict. 3 yrs strong.

    Unfortunately incarceration has more to do with Latino and Black women being left as single mothers. The vast majority of the prison population in the USA is Black and Latino. In fact there are so many Black men incarcerated in the USA that Black women find it very hard to even date Black men.

    There are many sides to every story.
     
  19. Persay

    Persay New Member

    In my experience foreplay is the most important part of sex, make sure to make her get multiple orgasm before you start the actual game. My wife told me when she gets organs via foreplay and after that when we start having sex she cannot control but enjoys it and keeps getting multiple orgasm again.
     
  20. L7Monk

    L7Monk New Member

    From what I've been reading it seems the intimacy (days or weeks) that lead up to foreplay/sex is also very important. When it isn't just about a gratification of an orgasm/dopamine fix, but a bonding period of the couple. The build up/foundation toward the peak. It seems like that lasts after the orgasm and can even feel as good in some ways. Per Marnia Robinson's writings. Can't say it's from personal experience.
     

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