I am about 5'5" in length erect and unable to pleasure my wife during vaginal intercourse. Rather largely because of my (deceased) porn habit so I understand its going to take time to recover (30 days and counting). What I would like to know, my wife says she felt nothing but pain during intercourse because of the hymen not being broken?? from what i understand the doctors ive spoken to tell me its all in the mind and that my size/length is fine. Maybe i'm still not encountering rock hard erections to be able to penetrate her due to my porn habit.??. I still suffer from PE and im not sure how long it will take (recovering from 15 years) for me to become normal again :'(. I'm going to hit my 56 day goal after a month but the problem i may encounter even when i reach my goal is that i might still need more time to heal in order to be functioning well down there and with my wife. My wife and i have had a tumultuous past but we are working together and things are moving forward. I am convinced after a lot of reading/consulting that sex is what makes the relationship whole between husband and wife and that the only way the two can enjoy it is with their deep love for each other. Since I am in a sensitive stage of my marriage i am convinced it is in her mind- until we are both healed, only then can we perhaps have passionate and lasting sex. Yet she is firm its my size after her visit to a sexual health clinic. Please i am not after a debate on what women fantasize about- more rather after medical/professional advice/assistance IF anyone can provide it. Perhaps some of the females here have experienced what i am going through hence why i decided to start this thread.