Hello All, Long time rebooter/porn victim here. Been on and off around these pages for over 4 years now. Back for some help and advice. Not much point in going too deep into my back story with porn, but it goes something like this - magazines, VHS, DVD, Cable, dial up, high speed and with each, usage going up and up.Real problems started with the rise of the tube sites and unbeknown to me at the time, too many instances of PIED which I put down to aniexty etc. It's been 4 years since discovering YBOP and quitting the tubesites but I'm still not cured. MO and borderline material on Netflix hasn't been so easy to give up. These past 4 years have seen improvements but I'm far from normal, very far. Two partners have come and gone due to ED and I've hit my 40's. I feel like I'm heading towards my last chance of any sort of normal life with a partner, family etc. ive been meaning to come back to the forum for a while but felt the need to come back after seeing my last gf on Fb with her new partner. She's getting on with life and looking happy. How I wish that was me in those photos. I'm struggling to see a way out of this. Anyone care to offer one?