am I being anxious over nothing? porn induced fetish.

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by Kou, Jul 23, 2022.

  1. Kou

    Kou New Member

    first i have ocd, meaning I get a lot of intrusive thoughts and anxious thoughts that are just irrational and annoying to deal with. It makes my anxiety worse.
    So first I'm like most people with a porn addiction, used to do it everyday. I slowly went from vanilla stuff to some weird stuff, you get the drift.
    My anxiety come from Cuckholding. I fear of developing a Cuckhold fetish. I mean really most people don't want to watch their gf having sex with another guy. (not shaming people who have the fetish).
    I just don't want the fetish or develop it.
    Anyways I used to watch Cuckhold porn. I can get off to pretty much anything but I tend to get off more when there is like a sorta back story. I also should mention I usually watch porn from a 3rd person perspective, so when I'm watching cuckhold porn I don't imagine my self getting cheated on, I just enjoy the backstory and more stimulation from the situation. It was only until recently I thought about porn induced fetishes. And me being a overthinking person beliefs that since I like the porn does that mean deep down I like getting cheated on? Does it mean I have that fetish? I hope not. whenever i get a gf I always feared I would get cheated on. Now I also fear that when I get cheated on, I might get aroused to it. That's what scares me. I don't wanna be aroused to that sorta thing.
    Another problem is I can't check if I have the fetish or not. Since I always watch porn from a 3rd pov I can't tell if I'm aroused by the fetish or just the interesting backstory. So don't know if I have the fetish or not. I would rather be infertile than get off to someone else having sex with my gf.
    So it's a pretty fucked problem. I keep telling myself I don't have the fetish it is just porn induced. But my anxiety and ocd keep making me overthink.
    so right now I'm gonna try to stay away from porn and hopefully control my anxiety. I just want someone who is either experience in porn induced fetishes or something similar to tell me I'm overthinking, because right now I'm extremely anxious and can barley eat. I don't want to be a cuck or even get aroused to that sorta thing.

    thanks to anyone that responds.
     
  2. Kevin Loki

    Kevin Loki New Member

    relax bro. the cure for all our problems lies in forgetting about porn.

    your brain will rewire, just stay away from porn
     
  3. Lucifer

    Lucifer New Member

    Brother same problem can I get rid of this shit Fantasy?
     
  4. BaldrRising

    BaldrRising Member

    You’re overthinking this.

    First get in a relationship with someone and allow it to flourish. Over time you’ll develop a deep connection with that person. If you really love her, you will refuse to let her fuck other guys.

    BTW, most women don’t respect male subs. To them it’s weird.
     
  5. BackOnTrack

    BackOnTrack Member

    Indeed, this sounds similar to HOCD.
    Just because you enjoyed watching cuckold porn, doesn't mean you have the fetish and want to put it in real life.
     

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