I am going through a divorce right now, and it's set to be finalized on Wednesday. In addition to my PMO addiction, I was caught having relationships online with girls, one of which was romantic in nature. I cut it off, but my wife still found out about it. Then after the separation I started chatting on an anxiety site because I have severe anxiety that's only been worse from the divorce. I honestly wasn't looking to start a new relationship but I met a girl who is incredibly pretty and really kind and compassionate. She knows a lot (but not all) of my issues, and she still really likes me. She thinks that I am her soul mate, and I think I might be hers. We clicked from the first minute we started talking. Well my ex somehow was able to get into the site and saw our chat conversation real time, and she berated me. Granted we aren't together any more so it's not really any of her business if I've found someone new. But she told me that I'm addicted to chatting with women online and that I have real problems and need to seek professional help etc. I don't know if that's just her being jealous or if I do really have a problem. I'm really conflicted right now. So in the meantime I told the girl I was talking to that I can't continue to talk to her right now and that we need a break (it's been only 2 weeks). I would really hate to lose a great relationship, but at this point I need to sort out my feelings. So what do you think? Am I wrong to pursue women online? Should I just take a long break to find out if I have a problem or not? Or is my ex just being controlling and/or jealous? I'd like honest feedback.