Age 17-Recovering From 4 years of PMO

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by coolboy, Aug 3, 2013.

  1. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    I started masturbation at the age of 13 and the next year when i got my own pc as well as internet i started watching porn videos almost everyday i became so much addicted to porn and masturbation that it became very difficult for me to abstain from it even for a day.i didn`t had any knowledge that what i am doing is causing harm to my health i just enjoyed it .i used to masturbate atleast twice daily and in weekends upto 4 or even 5 times.At the age of 14 i started developing symptoms of sexual exhaustion i.e.weak erections,poor memory,cant concentrate[otherwise i was very good at studies,i was among the toppers]chronic fatigue,social anxiety but because of pmo i lost each potential of mine.i came across this site cure-erectile-dysfunction.org where i first came to knew that masturbation was causing all this weaknesses in me.i later came across YBOP where i got a detailed analysis of why porn is very harmful for sexual health.its day 24 now since i have left pmo completely.i feel pretty great now,feels like i am almost half recovered,i just want to know whether i will get my potential back to study with full concentration also i was very good in sports before but now i am weak.the weakness is still there even today!will i completely recover my physical strength and sexuality.dr richard of cure-erectile-dysfunction.org says i am too young and will recover very fast!but still i am very anxiuos i am feeling very guilty i have very low confidence,and sorry for booooring you with such a long post but i am facing great depression i want to get my life and happiness back plz tell me can i do anything else to support my recovery.Thanxx in advance for your kind co-operation!!
     
  2. Motivated4Life

    Motivated4Life New Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Hey you can definitely heal yourself.. just have to dedicate 100% to rebooting.. no porn, masturbation, or orgasm for a while.. you're really young.. you're brain and body will bounce back fast!

    Check out the success stories section.. tons of guys bounce back from terrible conditions and are now 100% healed.. it just takes time with no porn or masturbation, and rewire to real women.

    Good luck!!
     
  3. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Thnk u so much Motivated4life! Well i am recovered from ED issue!But the social anxiety is still there.What can i do about it? :-\
     
  4. Motivated4Life

    Motivated4Life New Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Slowly take steps to do things that are OUTSIDE of your current comfort zone.. I'll use women as an example.. If you never flirt with women at all.. start by going to the mall or wherever and just stopping a girl and asking where the food courts are or where xyz store is.. anything just to practice stopping a girl and talking to her for a second.. then once your comfortable with that, ask them where something is and then give them a compliment.. "...oh xyz is over there, thanks, btw I like your style.. you look great :) take care". and then when your used to that, start going up to cute girls and saying "hey I just noticed you and I think you're pretty cute, I had to come see if you're cool.. I'm ____, whats your name?" You get the idea.. increase your comfort zone over time in any particular area and thats how you build confidence in it.

    Also, be more social with friends.. go out alot and be around people.. go to clubs, parties, whatever is cool in your area with alot of people.

    Good luck!!
     
  5. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    ty man! I already have some female friends and lots of friends! I stopped communicating with them for a while due to lack of confidence!but i will socializing with them to recover!
     
  6. ZimDownUnder

    ZimDownUnder New Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Just an observation - you're 16 so a level of social anxiety around girls is considered completely normal. To easy on yourself - a little bit of pre-game nerves helps lift your game! As long as its not debilitating and making you prefer your PC to people it's okay and normal.
     
  7. andych85

    andych85 Guest

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Glad to hear somebody already taking steps to becoming a man at such a young age. Good luck, and God bless, brother!
     
  8. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Thnxx so much bro!I can say now i am 70% recovered!!and thnxx to all of you for being nice and kind! ;) Also guys plz give me some tips to become stronger! 8) Bcoz some physical weakness is still there! :-\
     
  9. Beers

    Beers New Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    For physical weakness there is errr.. only one way to improve - train your ass off.
    Nah, maybe don't start hard on yourself, first learn to enjoy training to make it a pleasant habit, then it will develop gradually and you will grow up into a nice-built man, given that you're 16 yo.
    It's really important to notice that you shouldn't overdo yourself with too much training at your age, nevertheless, contact your local physician for guidance, for example at school :)

    Keep up the good job and stay conscious, you're really lucky to realize your state in such an early stage. I wish you rewire your brain quickly !
     
  10. HaroldMonthly

    HaroldMonthly New Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Its better if you use K9 web protection up until your 90 days are up. Actually theres an article on yourbrainonporn that says teenagers may need longer than 90 days to completely recover, Id give it an extra month. People think using a filter is considered weak or wont really help, personally I think thats bullshit. Even the Greeks knew that will power will burn out eventually. In the story of Odysseus, Odysseus and his him were crossing near the Sirens territory. Whoever listened to their beautiful voices would be mesmerized and walked of the boat and drown. Odysseus has his men tie him to the boat and plug their ears with ear wax, and no matter how much he screamed and begged they were not allowed to untie him. Also, most wont be able control themselves because their addiction affects their frontal lobe https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2730661/
     
  11. Wolvi

    Wolvi New Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Cheers buddy. I've used some of the products dr. Richards recommends and happy to confirm that his theory must be correct because I feel much better after those months and 100% is not in my mind. Keep up the good work.
     
  12. lookingahead

    lookingahead To restore my inmost being. Staff Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    If you have been PMO'ing daily since you were 12, what did that do to your libido? Do you even have any urges for real sex? How would you even describe your sexual urges? Are they urges to just watch porn and masturbate?
     
  13. WillGrit

    WillGrit New Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Your concentration, your intelligence and your physical strength will come back.
    Cuz you are young, it actually may take a bit longer. Gary says about 4-6 months.
    But it will come back. You also have an age advantage because you have time to plan your life and time to act on it.
    I rebooted twice earlier and the difference is enormous. This time, I wanna kick the habit for good.
     
  14. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    thnk u so much!
     
  15. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    52 days!!![no porn,no masturbation,no sexual activity of any type] its a new personal best streak by me. this time i dont wanna relapse anymore.also i would like to say i am feeling very nice.even though i am still in a flatline[its actually helps you] so abstaining is easier than ever.i can safely say i am 80% cured but atleast a 100 days would be a good achievement.also i have planned to buy the samsung galaxy s4 any other suggestions for a good phone!
     
  16. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    ohhhh! btw i am 17yo now!! 8)
     
  17. hollow

    hollow Lost & Found

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    Congratulations for your cool streak & happy birthday lil guy :D

    you are intelligent to have enough maturity that would lead you face your problem on early basis .. & stop fooling yourself with boring ed excuses

    i can feel you on on the track & not in need for loads of suggestions & assistance .. so, what i would like to mention is that

    s4 is a cool mobile phone ;D

    waiting to read your success story
     
  18. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    hey thnx a lot and btw i am nt suffering from ed i was only mentally messed up but now things are almost back in balance the main thing that helped me is that replacing your craving for porn wid something else so for me i replaced it wid my love for smartphones!!
     
  19. coolboy

    coolboy Member

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    also masturbation is bad for your mental health!people who masturbate a lot usually have low self esteem,low confidence,etc.so i wont resume masturbation at all!also i got a new girlfriend yesterday on my birthday! so i will only rely on sex wid my girl!
     
  20. hollow

    hollow Lost & Found

    Re: Age 16-Recovering From 5 years of PMO

    MO is rubbish !!

    during my reboot i never attempted to do it .. decided never to have any O either if its with a woman

    failed few times on early basis .. then had first O at day 82 from a bj

    even with a woman or nothing
     

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